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I can’t cope

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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I'm sorry to hear you're having a tough time right now @Captain24

I'm really grateful that you tried some of the techniques. Keep trying to find anything else that could potentially help your mind relax a little bit, whatever that may be.

Remember that you're not alone,

I'm sitting with you ❤️

Amber22

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Hi @Captain24,

It must be frustrating that your team are talking about ways to help you but not including you in the conversation. I would imagine you have as much insight into what might work for you as your professional team.

I'm sorry that things are so hard for you at the moment - I really admire how even on some of your hardest days you support others in the forums. It speaks a lot about what a nice person you are.

Are you able to take your fur babies out for a walk to get some fresh air? Even if it's for 20 minutes it might help clear your mind a little.

Sending you hugs and best wishes,

FloatingFeather

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Its so frustrating @FloatingFeather. I have no idea what is going on and it’s not helping. Everything just seems so hard.
Thanks for your kind words about showing support. I appreciate it and really needed to hear something good today.
My furbaby is being babysat so I can’t even have a cuddle from her and it’s raining AGAIN

Ill just have some breakfast and get ready for work. I’m up early so I’ll have a really long hot shower and hopefully that will settle me down enough for my shift.

Thanks for you support @FloatingFeather @amber22



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Hi @tyme


Just wanted to send you good vibes for the wedding tomorrow. You can do it!

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Hopefully the shift goes fast for you @Captain24. Do you get your furbaby back soon? there's nothing quite like a cuddle from our fur kids.

Take care of yourself - I look forward to chatting with you again soon.

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It’s the last shift of this block so hopefully it goes quick @FloatingFeather. I get her back in the morning so I’ll get a cuddle then and she can sleep with me tomorrow morning.
Thank you

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OOooo! Woohoo @Captain24 !

Thanks for cheering me one! I will let you know how it goes.

And I'm cheering you on for your work event tomorrow! You can do it!!!

Speak soon 🙂

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I don’t think I’m going @tyme . I’m not really in the right headspace.

Just heading into work.

Talk soon

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Yes @Captain24 - speak soon.

But I hope you do get to go to the function. I really want to hear about it.

Remember, I don't want to attend this wedding either....

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One step at a time my friends @Captain24 , @tyme

Keep on keeping on-- 😁 I just remembered writing this to you way back @tyme ❤

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