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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor16 June 2022, 9:48 pm AEST

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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JynxModerator20 May 2024, 4:54 pm AEST

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I'll flick you an email @Captain24. Hugs for you hun🫂

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Captain24Senior Contributor20 May 2024, 4:56 pm AEST

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Don’t worry about it @Jynx

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JynxModerator20 May 2024, 4:59 pm AEST

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@Captain24 well, I am worried hun. Plus I already sent it. How are your fur babies this arvo?

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Captain24Senior Contributor20 May 2024, 5:07 pm AEST

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They have spent the day on the bed with me @Jynx. I’m a really bad mum, I didn’t feed them breakfast and I haven’t done anything with them. They deserve so much better.

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JynxModerator20 May 2024, 5:24 pm AEST

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@Captain24 I forget my cats food sometimes too! It doesn't mean I'm a bad cat-parent, just means I'm human and sometimes I make little mistakes. They don't hold it against us, and they're built for survival just like we are - they will be a-ok.

Are you able to reply to my email hun? Thanks 😊

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Captain24Senior Contributor20 May 2024, 5:31 pm AEST

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Your email hasn’t come through @Jynx I just assumed you didn’t send it.

I hope my babies forgive me.

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JynxModerator20 May 2024, 5:40 pm AEST

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Oh truly @Captain24? Hmm I sent it over half an hour ago. Maybe check your spam folder? I will send another as a test!

You babies will 100% forgive you - they don't hold grudges the way humans can! It's like how we might occasionally trip over them or step on a paw - they legit will yelp, then turn and look up at us with tail wagging, as though nothing is wrong haha.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor20 May 2024, 5:42 pm AEST

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Are your furbabies with you @Captain24 , have they been with you all day loving you , sitting with you ❤️

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Captain24Senior Contributor20 May 2024, 5:51 pm AEST

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I’m out of bed and on the lounge. @Jynx @Shaz51. One is sitting on my shoulder and the other one is on my lap. Both wanting attention. So I guess they are ok.

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Shaz51Senior Contributor20 May 2024, 5:54 pm AEST

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They are totally OK and aww they love you my @Captain24 🥰

Enjoy their company xxxx

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