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I can’t cope

Captain24Senior Contributor16 June 2022, 9:48 pm AEST

I can’t cope

Hi. I’m new and have never been in anything like this before.
I’m really struggling with depression at the moment and just need a place to vent.
there is no reason as to why I feel this way. I just hate myself and feel like I’m an unworthy and useless person. I don’t have a partner or many friends. I feel like I keep pushing them away when I’m down. I’m just not worthy of them. I hate life and just wish I would go to sleep and not wake up. I feel so much emotional pain inside but numb at the same time. None of this makes any sense but it just how I feel.

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JynxModerator20 May 2024, 6:15 pm AEST

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Naww yay @Captain24

Haha on your shoulder? That's super cute!! The benefits of smaller doggos hehehe

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Shaz51Senior Contributor20 May 2024, 6:21 pm AEST

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@Jynx , @Captain24

🤣😂 just thinking 🤔 of having a great Dane on your shoulder

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JynxModerator20 May 2024, 6:30 pm AEST

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@Shaz51 🤣🤣

Just passing little treats to him like he's a parrot 😂

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Captain24Senior Contributor20 May 2024, 6:40 pm AEST

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He sits on the back of the lounge with his front paws on my shoulder. @Jynx @Shaz51 I have photos but my head is in them.

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JynxModerator20 May 2024, 7:12 pm AEST

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@Captain24 aww bless!! Like a lil guardian, I love it 😊

What are they like together, do they roughhouse around?

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Captain24Senior Contributor20 May 2024, 7:36 pm AEST

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They tolerate each other @Jynx. Sometimes they play, sometimes they lay together and sometimes they fight!

Im on hold to SCBS chat

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JynxModerator20 May 2024, 7:58 pm AEST

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@Captain24 daww the cuties!! Haha yeah I sometimes wish my kitties just got along all the time, and didn't have some weird jealousy triangle (I think Razz is the more dominant one, yet Trixie seems to have claimed me as her own and will try to prevent Razz from approaching me... so it's a weird dynamic at times hahaha).

I'm proud of you for taking that step hun! I hope you're not waiting for too long 🤞

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Captain24Senior Contributor20 May 2024, 8:36 pm AEST

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They are playing now. @Jynx. I gave them a treat to keep them quiet for an hour. They were just running down the hall to my room playing. Then Jett comes running back, jumps in the lounge and in his mouth is my bra! It put a smile on my face.

I got through and was mostly honestly. I did tell them how distressed I am. I have to call them back in an hour and they gave me a different number. So maybe that’ll be quicker to get through.

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JynxModerator20 May 2024, 8:40 pm AEST

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@Captain24 ahahaha they're doing well at cheering you up!! Haha a bra, classic.

Oh good stuff, yes fingers crossed you will get straight through. Being on hold sucks hey. Do you have anything to keep your brain and hands busy whilst on hold? I tend to keep some stim toys handy, and sometimes play games on my phone, which helps.

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Captain24Senior Contributor20 May 2024, 8:50 pm AEST

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I guess it’s a sign that I need to clean up! @Jynx. My house is a complete mess but it’s ok no one ever comes here anyway. I guess I can try and do a load or 2 of washing tomorrow and that may stop my underwear being dragged all over the house!!!

I think I need to get some toys, just not sure where to get them from.

I’ll just scroll through Facebook or something.

I have taken the meds that the ED Dr said to take yesterday.

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