SamboContributor
Lonely
Hi guys, this is my first post. I’m so shy I normally wouldn’t even reach out online for help, but I’m really struggling. I feel so disconnected from the world. Struggling with moving on from my childrens mum. I feel so weak
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Lonely
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
Re: Lonely
@Sambo
I am interested in attachment theory and psycho-social theory more than most ... but still ... took a long time to work through "jealousy" and "resent" and all the issues ...
There is reason for confusion and paralysis and big feelings when presented with the things she puts you through.
Even tho I am oppposite sex ... female ... I saw some similar mechanisms in the way you described your plight to my circumstances. Just work with what seems fair to you. Yes try for self improvement, but not to the point of self whipping. Whilst parenting, we can only do what we can. We cannot totally change the way we are wired, and still have to function.
