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The magic of tidying

The magic of tidying

Decluttering and minimising. Taking control of house and garden, nurturing body and soul. I've read Marie Kondo and read a little on a related Swedish method and feel inspired. I've been a borderline hoarder and lived with depression for too long and want to take the initiative. Has anyone done this? Or is there anyone who'd like to try with me?

I've sorted my books and uni notes. I've decided to sell some furniture when lockdown lifts. But the other papers and STUFF in the house and the jungle outside have me beaten atm. Some mutual encouragement and support is the only thing that's going to get me through. I know I'll have to face some decisions like "will I ever use that fabric stash" or "how many books in the TBR ,pile is too many" or "where do I start in the kitchen". Boxing isn't the answer, it was a temporary reprieve.

It's going to be a contest between my commitment to getting sorted and the looming possibility of having to move and downsize for my health. Having control of my space will be a win in either the old space or a new one.

Setting goals. Celebrating achievements. Sharing life hacks. Is anyone on board?

Dimity.

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Your cat is cheeky lol @Dimity. I suppose hoarding can run in families, just as any other mental illness can, I believe.

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I’ve let S2 and family live in the big house @Dimity and I bought a little duplex which suited me.

However, S1 broke his leg in July and has been staying with me since. Then gd1 moved in with bird and cat plus the toddlers come when S1 has them. It’s been somewhat crazy!

Today I have cleaned out a lot in my bedroom and swept the floor. Plenty more to do but it looks heaps better

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@Eve7 it sounds as though your little duplex is bursting at the seams. Well done for your efforts today with your private space.

I'm working on an outside cluster of big pots I'd neglected for a while. There's a lot to clean up, toss out, prune and repot e.g. the Queen of the Night cactus is budding but bursting out of its pot. Like decluttering, I do it in short bursts. Inside there's still a lot to do. I wonder how much I can get done by Easter.

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My efforts lapsed, I haven't been well .

Ì've compared notes with a friend who also has a lot of books and is conflicted about giving them away. It will be done, but slowly and carefully.

Today I got the gutters cleaned. I've booked an electrician Thursday. I'll try to get into the garden tomorrow as the weather will be quite mild. I'm trying to catch up on some maintenance. There's a lot to do.

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Take it easy @Dimity 😎

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Thanks @TAB . Have a good day tomoz.

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thanks @Dimity I will try to

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One step at a time, @Dimity

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Hi @Dimity

@Former-Member, @Eve7 , @Bow and @TAB

Sounds like you're still going in the right direction @Dimity , even if progress has slowed a little.

I had a Dr's appt today, meaning a trip to Geraldton. Actually avoided getting anything at Bunnings, though I did visit. Some grocery shopping and then home. It was a spectacular day, with big cumulus clouds and very windy all the way from the coast, just over 100 km. {160 km from Geraldton, diagonally to the coast}

I am working at winding down too @Dimity . With recent progress, I am actually looking forward to taking on small projects and working on them systematically. Still need to continue improving my physical condition and fitness, but am pleased with progress over the last few months. Gives me some re-assurance that the time ahead will, in various ways, be fulfilling.

The prospect of positive contact with daughter and her son is also a significant incentive.

With Best Wishes

@HenryX

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Hi @HenryX It's so nice that life is turning a corner for you and your outlook is better. Sounds like you had a good day. I hope tomorrow is another good day for you!
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