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The magic of tidying

The magic of tidying

Decluttering and minimising. Taking control of house and garden, nurturing body and soul. I've read Marie Kondo and read a little on a related Swedish method and feel inspired. I've been a borderline hoarder and lived with depression for too long and want to take the initiative. Has anyone done this? Or is there anyone who'd like to try with me?

I've sorted my books and uni notes. I've decided to sell some furniture when lockdown lifts. But the other papers and STUFF in the house and the jungle outside have me beaten atm. Some mutual encouragement and support is the only thing that's going to get me through. I know I'll have to face some decisions like "will I ever use that fabric stash" or "how many books in the TBR ,pile is too many" or "where do I start in the kitchen". Boxing isn't the answer, it was a temporary reprieve.

It's going to be a contest between my commitment to getting sorted and the looming possibility of having to move and downsize for my health. Having control of my space will be a win in either the old space or a new one.

Setting goals. Celebrating achievements. Sharing life hacks. Is anyone on board?

Dimity.

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I love this thread @Dimity and am so grateful to you for having the initiative to start it.

I have scaled back my grand plan for decluttering to a more manageable daily schedule minutes per day eg today was 3 minutes. Tomorrow will be 4 and so on each month,

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You have to start somewhere @Eve7 . I started with 8 items/day...

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This is on my bucket list @Dimity to

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I tend to stop and start @Eve7 . Today I dealt with papers, mostly charity circulars and advertising flyers. I need to clear a working space again for sorting. Do you have much to contend with?

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I moved from a very big home to a small duplex and I need to get rid of a lot more stuff @Dimity

Everywhere I look there is clutter but I’ll get there.

I have sent my snow dome collection to Lifeline

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Sometimes it's hard to let go of collections we're emotionally invested in. You did well to release that space @Eve7 . Marie Kondo leaves bric-a-brac and memorabilia we're attached to til last.

Ì hope the downsizing and move are working out well for you and you're enjoying the new neighbourhood.

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Hi @Dimity. Yes, I also have a weekly routine for relaxation and self-care. I try to sleep as often as I can because sleeping helps me cope. I also have very long showers. When I'm preparing a snack or dinner, I try to do some house cleaning at the same time so that by the time I start eating, I've already done some chores. After dinner, I quickly do my dishes so that way when I wake up in the morning, there is less housework to do. I just do all of my cleaning in stages.
Hopefully your decluttering projects will work out in the end and I hope you continue to stay well.

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Thanks @Former-Member you have some great strategies for keeping up with it all. Staying active and in the moment rather than disconnecting might be a key takeaway. The routine seems important. When I'm not coping I can let things slide and not really notice what needs doing. So getting into good habits is the answer. I'm working on it!

Thanks for your support.

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I like to tidy when in the mood. And have been very much in a decluttering phrase the last year or so. It amazing what we can actually live without. I am a bit sentimental... and do keep things and am thankful we have a big garage to store crates in. But every now and then I like to go through it all and cull stuff.
my mum is a terrible hoarder! And I think my daughter is too.

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@Bow at least with the garage you don't need offsite storage. I have a lot of books in storage.

My cat is thwarting some of my tidying efforts. He knocks things off the coffee table and cleared a space for himself on my desk by pushing off my laptop and working papers.

My sister is a hoarder and continues to buy large items. I'm not sure if it runs in families. At one stage my parents lived across 2 houses yet still had a garage full of my grandmother's stuff.

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