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The magic of tidying

The magic of tidying

Decluttering and minimising. Taking control of house and garden, nurturing body and soul. I've read Marie Kondo and read a little on a related Swedish method and feel inspired. I've been a borderline hoarder and lived with depression for too long and want to take the initiative. Has anyone done this? Or is there anyone who'd like to try with me?

I've sorted my books and uni notes. I've decided to sell some furniture when lockdown lifts. But the other papers and STUFF in the house and the jungle outside have me beaten atm. Some mutual encouragement and support is the only thing that's going to get me through. I know I'll have to face some decisions like "will I ever use that fabric stash" or "how many books in the TBR ,pile is too many" or "where do I start in the kitchen". Boxing isn't the answer, it was a temporary reprieve.

It's going to be a contest between my commitment to getting sorted and the looming possibility of having to move and downsize for my health. Having control of my space will be a win in either the old space or a new one.

Setting goals. Celebrating achievements. Sharing life hacks. Is anyone on board?

Dimity.

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@ENKELI thanks for your support. I can't support you with the button either.

Happy to support you if/when you tackle the tubs in your carport. I need to get on top of my paperwork and IT stuff before doing much else. I've just reached out to a handyman for some small jobs I've been putting off.

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thinking of you lots @TAB

hello @Dimity , @ENKELI , @tyme

how are you going today xx

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..good thoughts hopefully @Shaz51 lol

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@Dimity wrote:

Both groups are Tuesdays @AuntGlow , they happen to fall in alternating weeks.It works out well for me. I think I'm the only person who goes to both. They might give me confidence to try more challenging activities, or social rather than activity-based groups.

This week it was an exercise group.

Today was a big day for me, I had a visitor.

I guess I'm slowly trying to extend myself.


I can see you are absolutely trying to slowly extend yourself. You must have been so exhausted after the exercise group and your visitor. 😮‍💨

What does today look like? @Dimity

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Hello @AuntGlow I'm about to head to Funnings to get supplies - I have a handyman coming first thing tomorrow.

Feeling a bit stretched but maybe that's good.

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@Shaz51 hello gorgeous lady, I hope your day is going well and you and Mr Shaz are feeling better.

@Dimity I was chatting with my oldest friend (we've known each other 50 years) last night and shared your SIMPLE plan with her, she was very thankful.

@tyme my sweet, how are you today?

Support button still not being supportive!

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My mum loves renovating and fixing things. What about you? @Dimity

A little stretch is good! Maybe you can do something to unwind and come back to yourself tonight?

Hello lovely @ENKELI! 💛

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Gosh @AuntGlow I wish I had the knack of renovating and fixing. Years ago I used to try but I've given up. But a couple of days ago I had a handyman for over 3 hrs. He did a number of small jobs.

@ENKELI I'm glad you like the SIMPLE technique. I did something similar when sorting a lot of files and papers a few years ago.

Today I did some serious decluttering of a cupboard shelf. It felt significant. Hopefully I'll keep going.

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What is the Core 4 decluttering method?


The Core 4 Method was created by professional organiser Kayleen Kelly. It’s designed to keep things simple and strip decluttering right back to the basics. The four steps — Clear Out, Categorise, Cut Out and Contain — give you a structured plan that says exactly what it does on the tin. Empty out the chosen area, group them into categories, declutter the things you don't need or want and then rehouse them in clear and organised ways.

You do need space for the clearing out stage.

At present I'm chipping away one chore at a time, one item at a time.

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How are you @Dimity? Just checking in. 💖

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