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The magic of tidying

The magic of tidying

Decluttering and minimising. Taking control of house and garden, nurturing body and soul. I've read Marie Kondo and read a little on a related Swedish method and feel inspired. I've been a borderline hoarder and lived with depression for too long and want to take the initiative. Has anyone done this? Or is there anyone who'd like to try with me?

I've sorted my books and uni notes. I've decided to sell some furniture when lockdown lifts. But the other papers and STUFF in the house and the jungle outside have me beaten atm. Some mutual encouragement and support is the only thing that's going to get me through. I know I'll have to face some decisions like "will I ever use that fabric stash" or "how many books in the TBR ,pile is too many" or "where do I start in the kitchen". Boxing isn't the answer, it was a temporary reprieve.

It's going to be a contest between my commitment to getting sorted and the looming possibility of having to move and downsize for my health. Having control of my space will be a win in either the old space or a new one.

Setting goals. Celebrating achievements. Sharing life hacks. Is anyone on board?

Dimity.

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same re people in house @Dimity well tax is a big thing if you can get it done. You're going well 😊

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@TAB @RedHorse @HenryX I'm trying to get back to decluttering with books and papers after taking a break from it. I picked up several boxes from storage... work notes from 20 years ago, bit of a time capsule really. Sparking a lot of memories as I go through them. I do feel compelled to reflect on them rather than just throwing them out so it's slow. I guess that's why I haven't dealt with them before.

I've heard there's a charity book fair coming up soon so I might be able to donate some books there. I have books I've bought and never read...

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.. my 'memories' are in various rubbish bins and on various kerbsides over the years @Dimity and guess I am Glad for it .. 😊..

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@TAB fair comment...

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Got way too much stuff again here @Dimity need to start trying to sell things then just get rid of them if cant

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Same here @TAB

How are you today?

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Yeah fair to muddling thanks @Dimity got interstate trip soon looks. Not prepared at all. Father about to be put on end of life thing hes near 100 anyway and in pain. And all I can do is think about myself and how it affects me..
sorry. How are you going 😅😇👋

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Me I'm having a lazy day @TAB haven't done anything so far, feeling a bit meh.

My dad was on palliative care for about 10 days. There were family dramas and I doubt I'll ever hear from some of the family again. My fault as much as theirs. I'd reach out to them but it's too scary, I've tried before. What I'm trying to say is that your thoughts and feelings are valid, give yourself some TLC, the forumites here will support you. It's a watershed time, please look after yourself.

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Yep sounds very similar dramas yet to happen @Dimity plus doubt see some ever again and accepted that long ago. Not bothered. Ok feel
More alone in world somehow . Thanks

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@TAB take care, you're worth it :ok_hand: 💓

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