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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
I feel like my thoughts are out of control they are around SH, am safe but am struggling with the thoughts I have been so stressed the thoughts are just coming back. I don't want to have my addiction to SH again. I want to stay clean.
@Former-Member - am safe
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
@Peregrinefalcon - today is not my day, I really am over it
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Judi9877Senior Contributor
Hi there @Fluttershy1
I've just read online that you're having a rough day which isn't great to read. I'm sorry that things aren't going well for you, especially in regards to your grandmother.
Like I said in a previous post, families are a tough group to be in at times but we're stuck with them unfortunately and that's the way it goes.
Does your grandmother know you have other expenses to pay and that's why you can't help her out? Does she need help from a charity organisation who may be able to help her more than you could at the moment? Do other family members know she is asking you for money? Maybe letting other family members know about her situation might be a good suggestion?
As for going offline away from the forums, that's perfectly okay and is up to you if you need to do this. Myself and other forum members will continue to be around the forums if you choose to come back so just be aware that you're going to be missed if you choose to leave. I personally like having you around the forums and enjoy chatting to you about different topics. As long as you're safe, that's the main thing.
Take care forumite friend!
Judi9877😎💐
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
@Judi9877 - family don't seem to care, I just had a massive fight with my dad to ask for more money so I can pay my bills off and all of that and I just get screamed at. I'm feeling really overwhelmed and upset today. I'm just gunna hang out here. Feeling emotional
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
@Judi9877 - sorry I had a meltdown and a anger outburst, the whole family issue got to me and triggered me. A lot has been going on and it's been making me feel really overwhelmed
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BPDSurvivorSenior Contributor
@Fluttershy1 , are you working, or studying?
It seems like your whole family situation thing isn't working for you at the moment.
What is something you can do to work with what is happening?
You may not be able to change your family members, but what can you do to help you?
If something isn't working, look for another way.
If logging of social media helps, go for it.
If hanging out on social media helps, go for it.
As @Peregrinefalcon mentioned, you are stronger than you think.
The ball is on your court.
BPDSurvivor
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Hey @BPDSurvivor, I can't work at the moment with all my medical history I'm still trying to work it all out.
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
Hi @Shaz51 @Snowie @MDT @frog @outlander @NatureLover @Eve7 @Former-Member @Bellarose75 @Lee82 @Bunniekins @jem80 @BPDSurvivor @Judi9877 @Peregrinefalcon - today is not a good day, I feel like nobody cares about me, dad yelled and screamed at me over the phone, told me that I'm not getting anymore money from my savings, his wife called me names and told me I am fat. My support worker that I was supposed to have didn't end up coming because she had family over and they didn't leave until 2am and she knew she had a shift with me today.
I just feel like a let down.
I give up
I hate myself so much at the moment
I feel like everything is just becoming worse with issues and all of that
am safe
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Eve7Senior Contributor
@Fluttershy1
💜🤗💜🤗💜
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Fluttershy1Senior Contributor
@Eve7 - thanks I feel so down and upset
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Eve7Senior Contributor
I am sorry you feel that way @Fluttershy1
Can you do something kind for yourself?
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