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Memories

Memories

When I was in high school I often didn't pack a lunch. Partly laziness, partly nothing much there to eat. I'd chuck a couple of apples in my bag and a can of soft drink (which cost 50c back then) and then not eat the apples because bleh. But they were there if I got too hungry.

I was friends with a girl back then and she started noticing I didn't ever bring much food with me. She started out pretending like she wasn't going to eat all her lunch and share hers with me. Eventually she started just packing extra snacks--fruit buns I recall--for me to have. Wednesday's she'd buy her lunch from the canteen and she'd get me a hot chicken wrap. She mothered me a lot back then. She didn't have to, I didn't ask, no one told her to, she was just a really good person.

I think of her often, and I feel very grateful to her. She was always very kind and caring. I remember I started calling her "Mum" as a "joke". But it wasn't really. She took good care of me like mother's are meant to.

It makes me ache to think back on it now.

@BlueBay @TAB @MDT @Appleblossom @Bow @Powderfinger @NatureLover

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Hi @saltandpepper 😄

Aww @Anastasia So sorry to learn that your boy did not have such a good night. Really hope he has adequate support from his brother and his Dad. No I dont get emails at all unfortunately, despite being subscribed to do so. Email notifications suddenly ceased out of the blue a couple of months ago. And despite concerted efforts on my part, they have never returned. Managers said it may takes weeks to return. But its now been months. So I guess for me, they are a thing of the past. Long story short ... you are right, not a lot of sense was made of your post. 😔

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All good @Anastasia we are about to head out here too, taking my son out for a bike ride since it's sunny here.

Hey @Emelia8 how are you getting on? Will catch up with both of yas this arvo or tonight 🙂

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Sorry you don't get emails Em,

Heading away now for bike ride too @saltandpepper might see you 😉

Enjoy your day @Emelia8 💕

Catch you both later 🙂

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Haha @Anastasia wish you did see me. Would've loved a ride haha tough work keepin up with the little man sometimes

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You're a good Daddy betcha he's having a ball 💓💞 @saltandpepper

Stopped for late lunch and looking at the Ocean 🌊

@Emelia8

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Yeah he loves getting out on his bike, little dare devil he is. He's out there trying to do bunny hops despite not having any pedals on his balance bike haha

sounds like a nice day @Anastasia hope you're enjoying yourself and the water

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Home now defrosting with my electric blanket wrapped around me @saltandpepper @Emelia8

Great day seeing lighthouses, beaches, oceans, the "beautiful people" Yachts, and fish and chips for lunch. Think we covered half of Sydney. Pooped now, not as young as I once was 😜

Haha your boy doing bunny hops, love it 🚴‍♂️

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Sounds like a lovely day @Anastasia 🌻 You deserved that. Hope you have received some more encouraging news from your boy during the day. Is he home again tomorrow?

Your little fella sounds like a true delight @saltandpepper . You are lucky to have him, but he is every bit as blessed to have a dad like you. Please dont ever lose sight of that fact.

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Thank you Em,

Yes home tomorrow. Just spoke to his brother and he's doing ok. Mind you his brother loves to drink so his ability to be aware is not always great 🤦‍♀️ @Emelia8

I couldn't agree more Em about @saltandpepper 🙏

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Good morning @saltandpepper @Emelia8 @BlueBay @The-red-centaur @NatureLover

Sending love and light to you all 💞🙏💞

And coffee can't forget the coffee 😁

☕☕☕☕☕☕

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