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Memories

Memories

When I was in high school I often didn't pack a lunch. Partly laziness, partly nothing much there to eat. I'd chuck a couple of apples in my bag and a can of soft drink (which cost 50c back then) and then not eat the apples because bleh. But they were there if I got too hungry.

I was friends with a girl back then and she started noticing I didn't ever bring much food with me. She started out pretending like she wasn't going to eat all her lunch and share hers with me. Eventually she started just packing extra snacks--fruit buns I recall--for me to have. Wednesday's she'd buy her lunch from the canteen and she'd get me a hot chicken wrap. She mothered me a lot back then. She didn't have to, I didn't ask, no one told her to, she was just a really good person.

I think of her often, and I feel very grateful to her. She was always very kind and caring. I remember I started calling her "Mum" as a "joke". But it wasn't really. She took good care of me like mother's are meant to.

It makes me ache to think back on it now.

@BlueBay @TAB @MDT @Appleblossom @Bow @Powderfinger @NatureLover

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@saltandpepper wrote:

That's awesome @Anastasia and how are you feeling now?

What kind of stuff does your son like to play?


I'm ok thank you @saltandpepper

Just want the supports in place like yesterday. I know it takes time, it's a process...

Mainly rock, thank goodness mostly I like his genres ☺️

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Worst of it is over now @Anastasia it can only get better from here. Did you take 5 today? What will you do to relax tonight?

Your son sounds like a top bloke 🤘 wish I had the coordination to play anything. Can't seem to get my left hand to do one thing and my right another haha

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Hope so @saltandpepper 🙏

He really is. Gentle, kind soul. Haha I hear you, I don't have a musical bone in my body 😜

Relaxing now. When does your boy come home to you?

@Emelia8 🌸

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@Anastasia I've got mad air drumming skills though haha

Glad you're relaxing, hope having those few days away from work will help with the stress. Do you have another psych appointment booked?

See him tomorrow morning for a bit then Wednesday he's here for the night. The other day I noticed that he doesn't call this place home any more. Just "this house" even though this is the only home he's known. Kind of broke my heart a little.

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That will be lovely @saltandpepper

Oh that is sad, I'm sorry...

could you do some crafty things together for his room, something he can choose and be involved in making and then relate it to being his room at his Dad's and his home?

My boys grew up having two homes x

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I'm still in the same place @Anastasia most of the stuff is still how it was. His room is still the same, he's just not there as much now.

Subject change? Not gonna lie, my eyes are threatening me with tears yet again. Fu*k me, I'm a mess these days.

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I'm sorry @saltandpepper

Tell me about something you like to do.

Somethung that you'd get excited about

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Good night @saltandpepper

I'm really sorry if my words upset you 😔

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No of course not @Anastasia sorry I disappeared there. My brain does poo's sometimes. Sorry I left you hanging, didn't mean to 🤗🤗🤗

Did you get some rest last night? Hope today is a good day for you and your boy

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Good morning all here @saltandpepper @Anastasia @BlueBay @Clawde

Have the best possible day, and (at least for today) may any memories of yesteryear ... be pleasant in nature.

Emelia 🌷

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