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Judgemental Boyfriend

Judgemental Boyfriend

My boyfriend tries to control the clothes I wear and makes nasty comments because I dont dress as he sees that a woman should. I dont like to wear dresses and skirts for different reasons. Much prefer to wear pants all the time. I see that the way my boyfriend is is controlling and have told him that but he rarely gets or understands what I say to him regarding his judgemental comments. His sense of dress isnt that great. He is often unkempt and smelly. The relationship isnt satisfying to me physically or intellectualy but I put up with him because its soooo hard for me to find someone new.

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Thanks @Former-Member. Chow Mein was so nice my son and I both had 2 bowls. Sadly no leftovers for tomorrow. Sweet dreams to you and @Bridgetjones. May tomorrow be easier

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You deserve better everyone does I been there it takes time when you do it feels amazing and feel so free

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..'each'? .. seriously tongue in cheek .. @utopia

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You should judge all men as being the same, we are not.

If anyone tries to control you they are not good for you.

As far as a relationship, they happen when they happen, you will put more stress on yourself worrying about it and may even get into a relationship that isn't good for you just because it's there. Your own happiness is what is important.

I watched a show the other night and a woman on there said how lucky she was, she had no partner, no kids, etc. she had been all over the world, why? Because she could pack and leave when she wanted to. By the way, she was happy.

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yes @TAB. 2 big huge bowls each
lol
I'm not a good cook & first time I cooked this and it was full of flavour. Yummy

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well, thx for 'like' @utopia and yes , did stumble on your story the other day, sorta explains wise comments I guess. Yeah, obligatory 'hope' you are ok, but I mean you no harm at the very least

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ohh ,, blah.. yes my cooking skills have become more 'defined' these days lol and do recall telling and and being told I was a 'good cook' ..well ..cook de doo .. lol have my strengths and maybe part of that is laziness and part is functionality lol .. @utopia

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,,and sure it was 'yum' @utopia was not tryin to diss your cooking

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@TAB. Part of my bad cooking comes down to the fact that I just don't enjoy doing it. Laziness is a part of it too. When cooking I just want it done in 10 minutes.
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