BridgetjonesSenior Contributor
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Judgemental Boyfriend
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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Your boyfriend is a control freak. Bet he wants a say in who you hang out with too.
I'd say leave. He has no respect for you and your opinions.
How about having some time without a man in your life. Spend time with friends. Enjoy yourself. Learn knew things.
By going straight from one relationship to another, you risk ending up with another controlling guy.
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mrkotterSenior Contributor
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@utopia is on the money here. Get out and go enjoy being single for awhile. There isn't anything wrong with that and often people learn a lot about themselves when they can focus on just them.
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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Hi @Bridgetjones I stayed with a guy who wasn't right for me at all, because I couldn't cope with the thought of being alone. Trust me, it's much better to be alone, than with a guy who isn't treating you nicely.
Once you get some confidence and good self-esteem, you'll find the right person.
You'll look back and think, "what the heck was I doing with him".
Don't waste your life with the wrong person, who is bringing you down.
Look forward to hearing from you again.
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Hi @utopia
Hello @mrkotter. I haven't met you yet. ![]()
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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Good luck
Lj
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Unknown userMember
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How have you been? I might have to read your answer tomorrow though, sorry, I'm so tired, can hardly think. Hope that's not rude. I am really interested and care about how you're going. 😊😴💜
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utopiaSenior Contributor
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Fingers crossed the days will pass quickly and it will soon be Friday.
I'm doing well. Still on a high from last week's session with my psychologist. Can't wait to see him on Thursday. Have completed a lot of homework. It's all making sense. I'm more hopeful now, than I have ever been. Although I know I have some hard steps coming up. And there is bound to be a few tears - as always. But my happy moments are more noticeable and I'm content most b of the time.
You don't have to appologise for sleeping. Get it when you can.
We can catch up for a chat tomorrow.
Sweet dreams