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I’m involved in a friendship that used to be very close and emotionally open, but over time (after a period of lost contact) it has become more surface-level and less emotionally expressive. For context, I tend to bond emotionally and don’t do well with s
Been married over a decade and some and since the beginning of April have tried to end the marriage. I want out because they are just really mean. To me, to our kids. Like every day I have to defend what I do and how I use my time. We've been in therapy a
Hi there, I have never done anything like this before but here I go anyway. I’ve been married to my husband for 19 years. I married very young aged 19 and moved out of family home. My parents and siblings never approved the relationship- t
I’m 28 years old and have been living independently in Australia since I was 18. It hasn’t been easy—I’ve struggled a lot on my own—but I’ve always worked hard, saved consistently, and stayed focused on my goals. I take pride in being financially responsi
Hi Folks -- hows it going, I'm new here - I 've been wondering about things lately and saw the Sane ad pop up in social media...it made me think of something that has been on my mind I keep getting halfway into a relationship, then a friend / pa
Hi there, This is my first post and I have a lot of scrambled thoughts that I would love some advice on. Sorry if it doesn’t make much sense!My partner is currently serving but is in the process of discharging. I would really like a medical dis
hello Sane community! wanted to hop on and write a bit about my week since it was quite heavy and for once in my life i think i genuinely feel physically exhausted. earlier this week my mum had a severe shivering episode (she has cancer and the
After nearly 30 years of what I thought was a perfect marriage he cheated. We just moved to a new house and it’s a construction zone. I have ADHD and my world is shattered. I feel like the whole relationship was a lie. I doubt everything. He was my home a
SoooThis is sort of a take 2 of a post t did a couple of weeks ago and deleted because it turned into a whinge fest and over share. I have been trying to find a way to articulate this without it being a whinge, over the past couple of weeks I h
I got into a relationship 13 months ago after being single for the past9 years and he suddenly ended things with me 2 days ago. I didn’t see it coming at all…every card, text, meme, gif, were all based on how we’d be together forever. I love this man
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Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.
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