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Hi there, I am new to this forum but so glad I have found it .i have been with my partner just under a year and we recently bought a house together. Everything was going very well. However in the past 2 months the way he perceived small arguments and reac
So I just figured out that my internal narrative isn't "not good enough". It's self hatred - which not good enough stems from.BPD, highly sensitive, my emotional response is always mis-proportional to what is actually happening, heavy internalisation, dar
Hi there I don’t where to ask this certain advice but hoping someone can help me. me (21) and my sister (20) grew up in a pretty bad childhood. We were very good kids but for some reason our father believed otherwise. He would get us in trouble as a
So I have a gf and I do love her very much however my problem is that I'm still very much in love with my best friend. We were in a relationship nearly 20 years ago and for a number of reasons it didn't work out, I feel horrible for my actions that led to
Hey again, just an update - I finally had to decide (his therapist put the pressure on to make a final decision as I have been on and off for past 4 years) if I wanted to stay with my ex or not, we have been living together for the last 6 months and it ha
Hello Sanesters I seek insight as to what I see as "a problem" in my life - other people seem to expect caretaking and handholding from me. For some years now I have been in certain social circles with people whom I perceive as "low functioning" - th
It’s been a bad few months going through the pain and grief of a lost relationship.But I went to a concert a couple nights ago and it just reminded me and flooded me with feelings and I made the mistake of looking at their social media again. It all just
@Sugarshack @AlwaysMyself Theres something seriously wrong with me I completely and utterly fall apart when a relationship ends. I've literally been crying my eyes out most of the day after my boyfriend of 8 months left me 3 days ago. It's not n
Hey friends, I am a 55 yo female, working part-time and studying as well. My partner owns and runs a business, with some help from a casual staff member. His work is demanding and very high-level (high pressure construction etc), and he really
Hey folks, not really sure how this works - I am new here. I’m looking for potential advice or perhaps some good news stories/ someone with lived experience. I met the love of my life 2 years ago. We have been smooth sailing, no communication is
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Help us push aside the stigma and discrimination surrounding complex mental health and change the way people talk about, and care for, mental illness.
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