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Hi everyone, Thought I might continue this discussion from out Topic Tuesday night here. We often tend to focus on the more difficult things in our lives, so I thought it would be good to talk about the positive stuff. So, what do you guys see as the posi
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Death of mother of daughter-in-law with subsequent and rapid development of resentment toward mother-in-law. Is this a recognized condition? How can the problem be resolved?
Heyhey, im new to this side of forums but as most of you know I’m over the lived experience side, I have a family member that has a mental health issue which is quite overwhelming for me and I’m stuck on what to do because I live with them and
2021 has been a tough year (I'm sure it has been for many of us).My partner appears to have BPD. But, as she feels it is all my fault, she just blames me and wants to punish me whenever she can.In the past, I escaped to work. I'm now semi-reti
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