Moving forward

@Former-Member

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@Former-Member. That's briliant news. I'm proud of what you have managed to do today.

Small steps.

Sending hugs and love.

@Former-Member I was very happy to see your pic bringing this thread up again.

Wow ... 2 months ... All the christmas and new year stress take a toll

you done good

Aww thanks @Appleblossom, @utopia, @Faith-and-Hope

thought I'd slide this under the radar a bit but you guys are quick. While I'm here I found a meme that suits me. I hope you all appreciate it for me too

❤️ It ❣

And you're probably in better company than you realise .... lol ....

So what if you are a square peg trying to fit into a round hole just not on this website but everywhere and for now you kind of know what might help but are too ashamed to talk about it because it feels like no one else experiences this and the fear of being judged in huge, so huge lots of times I think the permanent solution is justified. I am trying to go forwards but the solutions bring so much shame and fear of judgement.

Kind of @Former-Member. Having a messy day but ok. I hope you are going ok. You've had a hell of a ride. 💜🤗

@Former-Member. I have discovered through life and on this forum. That there is nothing that I have felt or done, that another person hasn't done. WE are all human. We all experience things differently. But we all feel.

If you are worried that your 'solution' is odd or to be ashamed of, could you maybe discuss it offline with one of the moderators here. They may be able to assure you that what you want to do, or whatever it is we are discussing here, is normal and nothing to be embarrassed or ashamed about.

I pretty much think anything goes. So long as you don't hurt anyone. And if it will help you, then maybe it would be a good thing. This is a bit hard to say, when I don't know what it 'is' we are discussing here. But I understand your need for privacy as well.

So maybe offline with a moderator or with a therapist, or a phone counseling service - a reputible one.

Can you preface speaking about possible solutions with the admission of shame or fear?

Is it in managing kids ... or am I misunderstanding you @Former-Member

isnt life bl*** & messy & sweaty and stinky ...