oceangirlSenior Contributor
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Hi,
I'm not doing so well. Didn't have a good appointment with psychatrist today and because I am struggling, it is difficult for me to open up.
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oceangirlSenior Contributor
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@TAB I'm trying to stay in the present and try to get out for a little while each day on my own. I try to catch up with a friend over weekend. I am trying to do everything and atm I just need to focus my attention on Kira. And get to the others things as I can. And sense humor helps to get through these times too and people that you can just be yourself with and just chill and you don't need to think.
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TABSenior Contributor
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No it's understandable @oceangirl sounds like you might need a Plan whatever that means. .. for your poor Dog.
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TABSenior Contributor
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Try and breathe @oceangirl <br>You and Kira will work it out. She will tell you when she needs to go. <br>You just have to work out how to deal with that.<br>I'm not the best at this . I try to not feel or show anything, well except Good. In these situations <br>I prob have generational PTSD plus helped father slaughter sheep for food. Kids are weird.what does your family say? Friends?
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oceangirlSenior Contributor
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@TAB I'm trying my best to stay present for Kira. Family and friends are supportive of whatever I decide to do. Its hard talking to others when they are really emotional about it-I know they care but it makes me feel more anxious. I don't know why. I am like you in the way that I show my emotions too. I don't think we are alone in that.
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TABSenior Contributor
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hope things get better @oceangirl am going to bed here. Do what you need to do.Perhaps imagine alternate scenarios and see which is preferable. Sleep Well.
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oceangirlSenior Contributor
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@TAB Good night Tab
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Unknown userMember
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🐾 WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME 🐾
And I'm not there to see
The sun will rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears for me...
I KNOW HOW MUCH YOU LOVE ME
As much as I love you
And every time you think of me
I know you miss me too...
BUT WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME
Please try to understand
My body failed, an angel came
And petted me with her hand
I THOUGHT OF ALL THE LOVE WE SHARED
And all the fun we had
It was hard to have to leave you
'cause i know you'll be real sad
SO WHEN TOMORROW STARTS WITHOUT ME
Don't think we're far apart
For every time you think of me
I'll be right there in your heart
-unknown-
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@oceangirl ^^^
Ive been thinking of you today, found the above poem I thought must be for you. (hope its not upsetting though, hugzz). How's your day been? I liked what TAB said yesterday. "Kira will let you know when it's time"
Be strong, glad you have the company of another fur baby and supportive friends, stay strong xox
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oceangirlSenior Contributor
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I'm feeling very sad and empty. My beautiful little girl passed away last night. I was so lucky to have her and to be entrusted to take care of her. Kira will be forever in my heart and thoughts and will cherish my memories of her. @Zoe7 @Former-Member @TAB @Shaz51 @MDT @Faith-and-Hope and anyone passing by
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
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Ohhh Sending you lots tender hugs my sister xoxo @oceangirl ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
