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How's the weather today?

How's the weather today?

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Thank you @Zoe7 Yes there need to be Better things (Re: Work) in store for me.

"Better Options" I call it....

I've lost all my Work Hours (all Shifts) this week - Punitive Behaviour, by an employer.

It's been Hot Hot Hot here, the past few days @Former-Member

Nice Cool Breeze, this afternoon - In fact Blustery....

Adge

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Oh @Former-Member That is not good Hon. Give Georgia a massive cuddle - it won't solve everything but she loves you and you her Sending you mega hugs

@Adge I read your worry room post and quite frankly was disgusted in your employers behaviour and expectations. You don't need that added shite on top of everything else. Very much feeling for you

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My girls 23rd void tomorrow. I have a SI plan for these dates and have to find reasons not to. Less reasons to live each year not helping. I wanna visit her grave, but it's hard and I might not return. I donno. Just seems like the right time. You know how it is struggling with SI

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For the love of God can someone give me 3 reasons not to. I've been screaming all day. Its like you want me to too. Why isn't there an off switch for us, for when we're done?

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Meanwhile, back at the ranch, we've had a bit of rain. Good Night 😴

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I can't give you 3 reasons Hon but I can give you one - I love having you here and as selfish as that is I would very much miss you @Former-Member I do know that darkness though and having anniversaries that leave us wondering why we are still here when others aren't. It is beyond hard Sometimes I think that living is for those that care about us - it does not often help but once I get through that anniversary day it feels just a little easier - not perfect and not ideal but a little easier. Nothing can bring back those we have lost and for you that is so much harder being your beautiful girl but keeping alive her memory is important also and you can do that by celebrating the time you had with her - it might be a cliche but I personally think that is important.

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Nearly missed ya @Zoe7, thanks, much of what you say is right, I just need carrying for a bit. Gotta be in a heavy sleep by midnight though, silence the voice telling me "it's time" - I fear I'll be lost to it on day, in a trance. Have to be asleep if I can find something. Even the good memories hurt so yeah, I donno

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It doesn't matter how right or wrong we are in our thoughts @Former-Member what matters is how much you are suffering right now and I do wish I could take just a little (or all) of that away from you. We never stop missing those we have lost nor do we ever stop thinking about them. You were blessed to have your girl in your life but I know you would give anything to still have her with you - I am so very, very sorry you do not have that Life is so unfair having lost her but throughout you have gotten through - that pain will never go away but I also know you are strong and resilient - you have had to be with everything you have gone through. I really do admire you Hon

Get yourself ready for bed, sleep through the worst of the night and tackle tomorrow when it comes. I will be at work but will very much be thinking of you tomorrow ...you got this EOR, even if you do not feel that under this immense grief, I believe in you. Sending you so much love and massive hugs

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Thanks @Zoe7 - you hear me 😢 thank you, it helps a lot. Thought you was angry with me too. Ill be ok, Meds kicking in so gonna nod off now. Good night Zo 😴

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Not one bit angry with you @Former-Member but really concerned for you. I do hope you sleep okay Hon. I will check in when I get home tomorrow evening but will be thinking of you throughout the day. Goodnight EOR

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