Hugs @Bunniekins

I think @Anastasia has an idea too.

I researched a lot of 2 separate apartments next to each other at one stage, but that is not the way our situation unfolds now and more space is prob better. He wont feel overly scrutinised and I will be protected from worrying about every single thing.
In many ways my son can do well , but when he flips its massive.
Though there are similarities as mums of struggling young men, for each one of us, each of our sons is unique and that will figure largely in best case scenarios for them. Dont internalise the negativity.
Just sitting with.
pics just reminding self

Mary Cassatt
Man in a box Sarah Yeoman