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Lee71Senior Contributor
Don't know How to tag by tahts ok. Km so very tired, but still sleep avoids me. I never feel safe, not in my surrounding, paranoia how the list goes on . Only neescti this for tthe next few days.
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLoverI think you might be spot on .
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLover and @Emelia8
I'm sorry I'm of so few words today. There are things I want, and really need to say, timing isn't right just yet.
I'm sorry for avoiding some of your questions
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
Apparently you can have a secondary love language as well...I think mine might be quality time.
I was wondering if yours was actions, so that I could maybe use actions sometimes to show you some care...if that's what speaks to you the most.
@Lee71
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
@Lee71 wrote:I'm sorry I'm of so few words today. There are things I want, and really need to say, timing isn't right just yet.
I'm sorry for avoiding some of your questions
That's totally OK, Lee. You don't need to talk about anything you don't want to.
I think you have few words when things get extra tough? @Lee71
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLover wrote:Apparently you can have a secondary love language as well...I think mine might be quality time.
I was wondering if yours was actions, so that I could maybe use actions sometimes to show you some care...if that's what speaks to you the most.
@Lee71
Actions do, they speak much louder than words at times
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLover its not really any tougher today than yesterday they both suck .
It is hard for me at times to find the words that explain what I feel even then sometimes i can't.
There was a post tortoise shell commented on I can't remember exactly what I said I will have to find it
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
@Lee71 wrote:Actions do, they speak much louder than words at times
OK, thanks for letting me know, Lee. I won't be able to do actions all the time, but I will give it some thought. I don't tend to think in terms of actions, so it will be a learning curve for me.
@Lee71
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
I'm sorry that yesterday and today both suck. Do you need to maybe contact your Chat?
@Lee71
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLover no, I don't need to.
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
I'm glad, @Lee71 ...
I hope your night is bearable...I will be thinking of you. ❤ I hope to see you tomorrow, Lee...
Good night also @Emelia8 , it's so good to have you back!
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