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Lee71Senior Contributor
Don't know How to tag by tahts ok. Km so very tired, but still sleep avoids me. I never feel safe, not in my surrounding, paranoia how the list goes on . Only neescti this for tthe next few days.
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLover yes I have a special mug , it's a travel mug so I can have even bigger cup of coffee in the morning.
I know @Emelia8 is doing it tough. .
@Emelia8 just know I'm here if you anything, a chat or company I'm right here
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Lee71Senior Contributor
Same goes for you @NatureLover I'm here for you too anytime,, if I need a time out will let you know but I'm good for now
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
That's good you have a big coffee mug in the mornings.
Can I just ask how your anxiety is today? Then I will have to go, according to the new arrangement, otherwise it will be too 'exclusive' without anyone else here chatting too... 😞
@Lee71
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
I just saw this...thank you, my dear friend. I'm glad you are OK for now, that gladdens my heart. 🙂
@Lee71
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLoverdidn't you read the post from nashy? Says we can chat still.
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
Not if it's just you and me - not for too long that way, I think. Just a little.
@Lee71
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLoverI think we are fine to keep talking. We aren't talking about distressing things I was wanting to share photos and music with you. I think we are ok to keep talking. And other s are free to join in
Do you remember awhile ago how we had a conversation about songs and you find a certain song and you can listen to it pretty much for days non stop.
For me this is one of those songs, know the words by heart, know every breath.
And @Emelia8 I know you're around and you don't need to respond Em just know I am here and maybe have a listen to the song, will reaffirm I'm here
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Lee71Senior Contributor
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
You're a really lovely person, Lee. 🙂 And yes, I remember that song, you've linked it before, I like it very much. I'm going to add it to my Spotify now.
I would like to be here for the songs and photos, but I'm scared of the consequences. So I'm going to go now...I'm really sorry. 😞 I will check in with you later today.
I really hope that some other people will be here for you during the day.
@Lee71 
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Hi @NatureLover, @Lee71
It is great that you both are interacting and leaning on each other and other members in the community for support. The forums are a peer to peer support space, so please feel free to share music and photos (as you have done so) with each other.
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