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Lee71Senior Contributor
Don't know How to tag by tahts ok. Km so very tired, but still sleep avoids me. I never feel safe, not in my surrounding, paranoia how the list goes on . Only neescti this for tthe next few days.
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Lee71Senior Contributor
Thanks @Shaz51 you're very kind .
Wouldn't be nice if we could sit diwn cand have a,cup of coffee together no words needed just the company
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLover
I know you're concerned, but i don't even know what to say. I'm not going to say colour or anything.
A random fact, I actually collect coffee mugs, got a cool sponge Bob one the other week.
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
@Lee71 wrote:I know you're concerned, but i don't even know what to say. I'm not going to say colour or anything.
It's OK Lee, I didn't think you would tell me the colour...too high on the chart 😥
I know you were talking to @Shaz51 , but I would really like to sit quietly and have a coffee with you. Somewhere quiet and peaceful...a takeaway coffee on the beach maybe. On a warm day.
I like that you collect coffee mugs...that's perfect for a coffee lover 🙂
@Lee71
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Lee71Senior Contributor
Of course you were included in the c9ffee @NatureLover @Shaz51 as well. Would be nice.
Not today cold and rainy.
As for the color, I think you know the answer, but i don't want to talk to a mod. I have talked to my therapist today.
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
I'm really thankful your therapist is so accessible, Lee. That's a comfort to me.
Yes, I'm afraid I might know the answer, too. 😥
Something I've been meaning to ask for a while is, are you allowed to have a portable heater in your room there?
@Lee71
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
Do you collect coffee cups @Lee71
I have a teapot collection @NatureLover
What coffee do you like xx
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Lee71Senior Contributor
Yes I do @Shaz51
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLover no we aren't allowed a heater in our room, too much of a fire risk.
Your thought is correct I'm about 90% there and yes my therapist is great.
What do you collect @NatureLover
If I do cups and @Shaz51 does teapots
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
@Lee71 wrote:Your thought is correct I'm about 90% there
Oh, Lee 💔
Please don't
@Lee71
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
@Lee71 , we care about you soo much , please keep walking with us xxx
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