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Lee71Senior Contributor
Don't know How to tag by tahts ok. Km so very tired, but still sleep avoids me. I never feel safe, not in my surrounding, paranoia how the list goes on . Only neescti this for tthe next few days.
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
Oh gosh, Lee! Oh wow. 😮
I am so sorry that everything is falling apart 😞
How are you feeling now, any calmer?
@Lee71
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLover no.
But that's ok. I'm doing what I need to do.
I'm glad you're here today
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
@Lee71 wrote:@NatureLover no.
Can you take one of your calming tablets (if you haven't already)?
I'm so sorry, I won't be around much this afternoon...but I will be back briefly this evening.
I hope you can calm down OK...you can also tag other people if you need company. Thinking of you, and sending a very gentle warm hug, Lee ❤
@Lee71
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLover are y ou still here right now? If so please just wait for my next message
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
OK, Lee...
@Lee71
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLoverI was hoping, I don't know. I know we can't talk about it. I don't see anything wrong with how well we have connected. We've said that several times in the months we been talking . I like talking to you, sharing photos videos and so on.
I want you to know that in no way is this your fault, since my first day here you have been kind, caring supportive, great company, it's been good to have someone to share my photos with. Again I'm sorry, this isn't your fault, the decision that was made is wrong and unfair in my eyes. You said you dont want to get banned, I know where that came from, I won't allow that to happen.
You're a good person, very kind. And without you standing by my side I don't know of or how I would have made it through. So I want to thank you, everything, for being you. The people on this forum are lucky to have you.
So as soon as I send this message, I'm going to start the process of leaving the forums, not your fault in any way, I wish the words thank you were enough. Take good care @NatureLover
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
Lee, please don't leave...I'm still here to support you, just a bit less. Other people here also care about you and want to support you ❤❤
@Lee71
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@NatureLoverit's already done, I sent the email. It's not fair and it's not right. I know there are others here, and I do engage with them sometimes. This is just not ok .
Please take care of yourself. And t h is decision isn't your fault
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JupiterSenior Contributor
Hey @Lee71 and @NatureLover
I can hear this has been really difficult to process @Lee71 and I'm sorry to hear it has left you considering to leave the forums. I encourage you to both to keep this conversation off the forums and between you and the Community Managers who will be back in on Monday. They will be able to provide you with more support and clarity around how to move forward 
Take care today!
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@Jupiter I said what I needed to say I'm the email and that's all there is to say
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