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Lee71Senior Contributor
Don't know How to tag by tahts ok. Km so very tired, but still sleep avoids me. I never feel safe, not in my surrounding, paranoia how the list goes on . Only neescti this for tthe next few days.
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@Emelia8 why would you want to know about her father? It doesn't matter or change anything. I don't have her , I don't have anything or anyone. I have nothing.
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Emelia8Senior Contributor
I was interested to know whether you had support at the time of your loss @Lee71 and also subsequent to that. If her dad was around at the time, then he also suffered a great loss. I'm wondering if you may have lost him from your life around the same time as baby Jesse. It sounds like he is no longer in your life now. And of course it matters Lee, because you matter.
It breaks my heart Lee that you feel you dont have anything or anyone.
Do you work Lee, or have you been working recently? What is your line of work?
Do you still have close family members living in Qld? Parents, siblings, nephews, nieces?
Will you be okay tonight Lee?
Emelia 💞
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Emelia8Senior Contributor
I guess Ive done enough damage for one night @Lee71 .. I am sorry I asked, and even more sorry that it resulted in hurt for you. Good night dear Lee.
Please stay safe, because you really do matter, and you deserve to feel safe and be happy.
By the way ... you can ask me anything, and I will give you a straight answer.
Good night 💤
Emelia 🌺
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Emelia8Senior Contributor
Are you okay @Lee71 ?
I'm really sorry I upset you. I only asked because I thought if I knew a little more about your situation, that I may be better equipped to help you. Clearly I was wrong, and I think it best that I not be here any more. Again .. Im very sorry. 💞 The last thing I wanted was to hurt you. I know @NatureLover will be around for you. Please stay safe Lee, and remember that I care about you a lot. 💕
Emelia 🌸
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
Hi @Emelia8 ...please don't go from this thread...I hope you will stay, and help support Lee71...
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Emelia8Senior Contributor
I dont think I can @NatureLover , though I wish I could. I dont think @Lee71 wants me here anyway. It seems I've hurt her and thats the last thing I want. 😕💖 I wish it were different.
I'm an idiot! And I feel horrible right now. Just hope you can rectify the damage I've done, in my failed attempt to better understand and support. 🌻
Emelia 🌸
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
We all make mistakes...we're only human... I hope that if you really don't want to be here today, you will come back tomorrow or when you're ready, @Emelia8 ...
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
Hi Lee...am thinking of you and hoping you might be asleep right now...really hoping for some deep rest for you 
@Lee71
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Lee71Senior Contributor
Hey @NatureLover
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Lee71Senior Contributor
@Emelia8
I'm not sure what messages you exchanged, with @NatureLover but I don't want you to go away.
I enjoy talking to you. Please don't leave
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