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The safe room- somewhere to just come and sit.... offload... feel supported

The safe room- somewhere to just come and sit.... offload... feel supported

Hello all ....

I decided to open up a safe room

somewhere we can just sit.... talk if you need... offload a worry or two...:check on your friends ...: and feel safe....

it is a side room to the worry room ....

let us know you are here so we can sit with you

please note that there is not always someone here physically.... but we are here virtually so it may take a while for someone to acknowledge you

you are safe and supported here

💜❤️🧡💛💚💙💔🤎🤍💞💓💗

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Re: The safe room- somewhere to just come and sit.... offload... feel supported

@Lostandalone I might curl up nearby if that’s ok. Bringing a hotty, it’s cold where I am, and a coffee/tea, if you would like one. ☕️☕️💕💕

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I am still curled up here in my corner.... I am safe here ... I can hide.... I have friends who come with hot chocolate ( can't drink tea or coffee) .... they keep my head above water so to speak

I need a good sleep... all day long I struggle to keep my eyes open... I snooze if I sit still long enough.... but as soon as I vlimb into bed my body laughs at me and I cannot get to sleep for the life of me

i am hungry but annoy eat

I am bored 😑

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My safe room would be overlooking a beach on a stormy day.

A storm would be raging outside, the winds howling, stinging rain, turmoltous waves, black rolling angry looking clouds.

Inside the safe room I would be wrapped up in a calming blanket, maybe with some snuggly purring cats. Some quiet instrumental music playing.

Even here, would my mind still be either in turmoil or shutting down or constantly flickering between the two states?

Would I be able to emerge feeling connected with the world and those around me or would I still be fearful?

Maybe I can take my mind to this safe room for a while and see how it makes me feel.

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Re: The safe room- somewhere to just come and sit.... offload... feel supported

Just needing to feel safe for a while. A corner and a cushion will suffice.

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Re: The safe room- somewhere to just come and sit.... offload... feel supported

Hi @Eve7 @Lostandalone @Antelope @Maggie @Former-Member and anyone else wanting to sit with us.

I'm here

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Re: The safe room- somewhere to just come and sit.... offload... feel supported

@frog Those blankets took cosy, warm and colourful.

I’m bring in a coffee.

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Re: The safe room- somewhere to just come and sit.... offload... feel supported

Hi @Maggie glad to share a cuppa

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How are you @frog 💚💚☕️☕️

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Re: The safe room- somewhere to just come and sit.... offload... feel supported

I'm pretty good this morning thanks @Maggie

It has been such a struggle lately but I have a bit of breathing space with a week off work.

How are you travelling?

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Re: The safe room- somewhere to just come and sit.... offload... feel supported

That’s good to hear @frog . The week off, and some breathing space might make a difference.

I’m stuck in a dark hole at the moment. It’s been a struggle for a while now. It’s hard knowing what to do to find a way back up. I’m heading out into the garden to do a bit of digging. It’s warm here, but no sun out. Good for digging.

Take care @frog 💚💚🐸🐸

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