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I can't anymore..

RothmanSenior Contributor27 July 2020, 4:39 pm AEST

I can't anymore..

Hey all. First timer.. long story shortish. 28 years old.

First attempt at 10yo.

Starting punishing self started about 12yo.

Eating and body issues around same time.

Been with boyfriend Damn over 10 years.

He has lived thru 4 more attempts, depression, not eating etc for that long.

I still don't eat really always depressed he accepts.

Been to hospital twice past 2 months (coworkers called, lifeline called)

Discharged myself in under hour.

I am wanting advice on how to get help when I'm unwilling to ask in person?

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The-red-centaurSenior Contributor01 Aug 2020, 12:42 am AEST

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@Rothman how are you travelling today.

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RothmanSenior Contributor11 Aug 2020, 5:38 pm AEST

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Not too good howre y'all

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MaggieSenior Contributor11 Aug 2020, 5:44 pm AEST

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Hi @Rothman . Things are sounding tough.

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RothmanSenior Contributor11 Aug 2020, 7:23 pm AEST

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Yeah I've been having trouble going to a gp/asking for help (without emergency services).. unsure?

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MaggieSenior Contributor12 Aug 2020, 5:11 am AEST

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@Rothman I know it can be really hard to ask for help. Do you find you GP is understanding of you mental health ?

It’s too hard to try to do alone. Listen @Rothman , if you would like to talk.

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MaggieSenior Contributor12 Aug 2020, 5:12 am AEST

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Supposed to be....listening @Rothman 💕💕

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RothmanSenior Contributor24 Aug 2020, 9:15 pm AEST

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@Maggie Not good, hate my life? Struggling to get through days.

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RothmanSenior Contributor24 Aug 2020, 9:17 pm AEST

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@chibam not sure got phone phobia, Bf won't help.. but I'm hurting/sad everyday?

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MaggieSenior Contributor25 Aug 2020, 8:47 am AEST

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@Rothman Listening if you would like to share some of the hard stuff your are struggling with.

Take care.

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RothmanSenior Contributor31 Aug 2020, 10:30 pm AEST

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@Maggie I can't go to gp alone, phone phobia.. struggling with depression, hurting self and eating problems for over 10 years. Live with Bf says If I'm that selfish to go off self. Father Alzheimeree.. cried out to coworkers months ago they tried to commit me then called cops.. They ignore since.. lifeline called cops months ago too ambo go so nothing not sure how to help self when I can't alone and no one will help??

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