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AnastasiaSenior Contributor
Hi all,
I never in my wildest dreams thought I'd be here. In saying that I have had some interactions with some of you and you are all lovely, so thanks for saying hi and making me feel welcome! @Shaz51 @Determined @Maggie @Former-Member @Faith-and-hope @Smc @SoS .
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AnastasiaSenior Contributor
Hello my @BPDSurvivor thank you for saying hi 🙏❣️
Yes things are a tad hectic here. My guide role has not been up to scratch of late 😔
I appreciate you reaching out. I hope all is ok with you?
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
Hi dear friend @Anastasia , thanks for your long reply when I'm aware you have very limited energy 
My catch-up was OK I guess, a bit stressful. Another one tomorrow, inside a cafe 😣...but apparently we are all going to catch Covid at some point in the coming months. 😢 I just went and got 13 books at the library to tide me over the Christmas /New Year break. I already have about 8 at home, so that makes me feel more secure. Yes, I'm greedy for books...I need about 10 unread on the shelf at any one time to feel secure! 😄 They are actually a massive strategy for my mental health.
I asked my psychologist yesterday if I could increase my 3 1/2 hour per week limit on the forums, as I've been doing 5+ hours per week quite a few times now... But she said no; it's like the road speed limit, if I set it to 4 or 5 hours a week I might do 7 or 8. I can see her point. And yes, she is prettty amazing, I'm incredibly fortunate to have her.
When do you think you'll be able to see your counsellor next? I know finances were an issue... 😥
@Anastasia wrote:My health has "settled" Dr said to follow up next year. The meds seem to have taken the edge off my anxiety and ruminating and the agitation has settled mostly.
I am so pleased to hear this 🙂
The SAD has definitely eased...the test will be during the next cloudy/rainy period.
How long do you have off work over Christmas and the New Year? I'm sorry your Christmas plans are all up in the air /in doubt.
Thanks for sending me all that fruit 😄 I did actually treat myself to some cherries this morning at the supermarket! They rolled out of their bag all over the boot of the car and I had to pick them all up, hope I got them all...can't wait to eat them. I might eat them for lunch, nothing but cherries! They're my favourite fruit.
Sending even more hugs back...I hope your time with your parents today is beautiful. I know it will also be hard 😞
💚🌻☕🌞
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AnastasiaSenior Contributor
@NatureLover ☀️🍒🍒🍒🍒💛
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BPDSurvivorSenior Contributor
N @Anastasia , these forums are for you. You are not only here for others but yourself too. Please don't think we expect you to be a invincible as a community guide.
Your mere presence makes a huge difference. Thank you for being such a great CG!
As for myself, I'm very well. Just pressing on.
Hugs,
BPDSurvivor
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AnastasiaSenior Contributor
@BPDSurvivor 💕
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pancakesSenior Contributor
@Anastasia Dropping off some 💙 and wishing I could give you a big squishy hug
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AnastasiaSenior Contributor
Thank you @pancakes wouldn't that be wonderful. Squishy hugs me love returned tenfold dear friend. Hoping you're ok?
🤗🤗🤗💙💙💙🤗🤗🤗💙💙💙
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pancakesSenior Contributor
How are you doing @Anastasia ? I hope today is a good day for you and your family just as you all deserve 💙
I really haven't been doing great but it is what it is you know?
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AnastasiaSenior Contributor
Enjoy your catch up with friends today @NatureLover 💛🍒☀️🌄🍓
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NatureLoverSenior Contributor
Aww, you're a sweetie to remember, @Anastasia , thanks 🙂
Thinking of you and sending much 💚.
@pancakes I'm sorry you're not feeling so good 😞
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