Want to talk

Thank you @Appleblossom I feel she is the best fit I have had so far in This awful journey. I like and trust her even after her comment however am not sure I would raise SI with her again. Things could change though. She is a ton better than any of the other ones I have dealt with as I said and I am willing to continue.

Hearing you @Lilly6

I wish they knew how much the clients actually bend to fit in with them, the profs. I had a recent bruising experince with a psychologist, that has resulted in me firming up, and calling out any issues I encounter.

Tbh. In their job. It is NOT enough to simply turn up.

Take Care.

I agree @Appleblossom it is not their job to just turn up and I have been through a few supposed mental health professionals that forgot that I think. Mental health care where I live is absolutely appalling and luckily I was able to link into an out of town service by phone.

It is good you call out any issues you encounter, that would make it clear what you are willing to accept and what they should be providing. I want to firm up too but I am not at that stage yet. I have though asked for different counsellors when I have been linked with one that was just awful.

That is the important thing @Lilly6

Usually people who go to a psychologist are vulnerable enough.

I am older and far more resourced now than many people.

I see the profession as in its early days, needing a little tweaking, and getting a big extra hand of public money. IMO that money has to earned.

Self referencing can be a strategy to engage and develop rapport with client. Not an excuse to get out of helping client work thru their issues. I do have quals in the field, but never practised .... still interested as it can be LIFE SAVING work.