So long, farewell, auf wiedersehen, goodbye...

@Former-Member
It's ok, I wouldn't take it personally, they don't really mean any harm,
because they are probably feeling quite troubled at the moment going through a rough patch, they are buying into thoughts which aren't who they truely are, so thier emotions and behaviours are expressions of that turbulance and that's ok.
It is only acting out of unconsciousness, so I have compassion for them.

We can only do our best to support, I acknowledge how things are for you too at this time, as we had discussed in previous posts, stay strong and give us a shout if you need support.

As for the words, You're fine,
Thoughts and words can't hurt you,
only your interpretation of them can,
that is; offence cannot be given, only taken,
for example,
If someone gives offence,
but we choose not to take the offence, or even say that it is an offence,
then it falls to the ground like Neo stopping the bullets in the Matrix.

It is like Water off a ducks back.
No harm is done because there is no "me" to be harmed.

I suggest that if you are also going through a challenging time and may be feeling a little fragile,
that it's important to maintain your own wellbeing, to not be too caught up and affected by others troubles, emotions and behaviours that you may not be ready to deal with just yet,
to be kind and gentle with yourself and doing whats in your best interest for your wellbeing first and foremost.

Everyone's wellbeing is important,
and I have faith that we will all get through these challenging times.

Namaskaram

Guiding_Light

Hi @Former-Member

You are a beautiful person for wanting to help someone in distress. I'm sure they don't mean to hurt you by their words. Pls don't take it to heart. But I can totally understand the pain and hurt you are feeling.

I really hope @ms_37 you are ok as best you can be. Thinking if you. Pls reach out. There is always someone here to help you.
@Guiding_Light nice to meet you on here.

@Jynx i hope that @ms_37 is coping.

@BlueBay I hope that @ms_37 is safe and ok too. I'm really not a beautiful person, inside or out, far from it, but thank you though.

@Guiding_Light thanks for your words too. I have compassion for them aswell, I was just trying to help them, trying to talk them out of hurting themselves or worse, and I hope they're still around and safe

Well I still think you are a caring person To help @ms_37 who was distressed. 😊

@BlueBay @Guiding_Light @Jynx @Former-Member and anyone else here, I'd be better off not being here, on the forums or in general

Why @Former-Member what's happened. Are you safe?

@BlueBay I try my best to support people here, on any part of the forums. Whatever I do and say I'm criticised for and this makes me feel like an awful person inside and out and more suicidal. I guess I should just go and not come back here (keep my account though)

I don't think you should go @Former-Member

to be honest I haven't read any other posts that you've replied to. I've been not well.
pls stay. You are a great part of this forum.

@Former-Member

I don't think anyone is critisizing you, it's no big deal.
I agree with @BlueBay it's good to have you here

Hey what music are you into by the way?