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Tough Times

Tough Times

I thought I'd open up this discussion for anyone going through a rough time at the moment and want to get some extra support.
I am struggling a lot at the moment dealing with a range of things. One thing a struggle with is Anxiety. This is something I deal with everyday. I wake up with it every morning and fall asleep (when I sleep) with it every night. Some days are worse than other days. Distractions play a big part in coping with it daily. At the moment being stuck at home schooling my kids is my biggest distraction. It helps most of the time however sometimes it can be a real struggle to stay present and calm. We as a family try to go for a walk everyday. We take our family dog with us. Another distraction for me is cooking but this can be a challenge as I struggle with motivating myself but when I get into it I create some nice things. Today my 8year old son and I made oat based banana and chic chip muffins. 😋😋

I hope everyone's day has been a good day filled with self care and motivation.
@Former-Member @Angels333 @Sans911 @Shaz51 @Appleblossom @Snowie @eth @outlander @Former-Member @Zoe7 @Faith-and-Hope @BlueBay

And anyone else who I have missed. All are welcome to join.

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Thank you honey. I have seen you around the forums and you are such a support for so many. You are one special lady. @Bunniekins

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Will be thinking of you @Bunniekins and will be here throughout the day if you need to pop in for a chat. Hope you get some sleep honey.

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I will leave little messages for you here throughout the day and when you wake could you please check in even if it's just hitting the support button so I know you are safe pea. Sending you all my love and some hugs too @Bunniekins

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Good morning honey

how you going?
@Former-Member

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I am not going to lie Lee, yesterday was a bloody hard day and last night felt like the end of the world. Just making a cuppa tea, want share a cuppa this morning?

Good morning fourm family, just having a cuppa if anyone else is awake and wants to share one with me and Lee.

@Sans911 @outlander @Shaz51 @Zoe7 @Shaz51 @Former-Member @HopefulWarrior @NatureLover @Former-Member amd anyone else passing through

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I have just made a cup of coffee so happy to join you. @Former-Member

anything you would like to talk about?

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To be completely honest this morning I don't even know where to start. It was a struggle yesterday/last night and then Nat called and so much more surfaced. I am feeling a little light headed and fuzzy this morning. Thank you Lee for being here this morning 💖

@Lee82

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I will always be here for you babe.
why don't you try and start from the Beginning? Only if you want and definitely only if you feel you can share if it's not too triggering.
to be honest honey I have no idea what has been going on for you these past couple days and I have been very worried

@Former-Member

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I am sorry for that honey, I was just floating down the river of denial most of this week and especially after my conversation with my cousin. The only time I would dwell on it was at night and that is when things would get out of hand with the monster. So then there was shame and guilt to deal with the next day and that is how my cycle has worked for the last week. Embarrassed to confide in you or the feast of our fourm family and to scared that confining in Nat would be the last straw for her and she would leave me as well. @Lee82

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Come on babe by now surely you know that there is no judgement. You have absolutely nothing to be embarrassed about but you are the one that needs to feel comfortable sharing and if ever you are ready to I will be here to listen.

how about starting with your conversation with your cousin? What happened or is that the things that is embarrassing?
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