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Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

Hi, I have just joined. I have a few mental illnesses, but am especially interested in hearing if there are any diagnosed germophobes or people with hoarding disorder on these forums?

I don't know any germophobes in real life, and would be interested to know how any of you pre-Corona germophobes are doing. Can you find enough sanitiser? If not, what are you using instead? Has your germophobia gone sky-high in this pandemic? Do you find it less or more lonely now that nearly everyone is a self-confessed germophobe?

My germophobia is quite bad - I can't have anyone in my house, and need lots of sanitiser when I go out. E.g. I use it after leaving my house and before I get in the car; again before I touch the steering wheel, again after touching my purse, again before putting my seat belt on, etc. I am struggling to find enough sanitiser. If I run out, I was thinking about diluting some disinfectant and putting it into an old water bottle to take out with me. I had one really bad panic lasting 3 days that was debilitating, due to COVID-19, but after that thankfully my germophobia came back down to normal levels. I guess normal levels are not that great but at least I am used to them!

I am strangely finding it more lonely as a diagnosed germophobe now, and would really like to meet some other germophobes online and hear how you're going. At least I had a friend tell me that I was in a stronger position than him, during this health crisis, as he had trouble remembering to wash his hands, whereas I wash them a hundred times a day already!

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When you come back @tyme 😊

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Oh that sounds really hard @Shaz51 I'm not surprised it's taking a while to get things done.

And to have a house burn down as well that's a LOT

As you say though, one day at a time, or as I would say one foot in front of the other, you just have to keep on keeping on through the hard parts to hopefully get to the good

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Week of the 18th May (if all goes to plan) @Shaz51

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Sorry I mean decluttering when you come back home 😊

Make June a decluttering month with me @Till23 , @Dimity

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I'd love to do that @Shaz51 but I will be away overseas most of June, but I really like the idea of having someone else to help with motivation.

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I've only just sat down @Shaz51 @tyme @Till23 . I worked for a couple of hours then went on my usual walk, and cooked.

I can understand not unpacking @tyme . Some of your stuff might be surprises when you get to it. I have boxes dating back years

Reclaiming your space in your own home might be harder than clearing your father's house @Till23 for all sorts of reasons. And that's OK. You need to give yourself time to process the feelings.

Your house has been in the family such a long time @Shaz51 it must be full of all sorts of stuff. Are you and Mr shaz planning to redecorate? Re-imagining the space might help you decide what to keep.

I'm trying to restart my decluttering. I'm doing a little each day if I can. Unfortunately trawling through stuff is reminding me of past problems and failures.

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Yes @Shaz51 decluttering with you in June would be good. I'm off to a slow start this month and hopefully by June I'll be in my stride.

@NatureLover might consider tackling some boxes with us.

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Sounds like a great plan @Shaz51 @Dimity @NatureLover

I will join in when I am here and continue in July, being cooler it might be good for some heavier stuff

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It's all I can do trying to keep up with the house @Dimity , I think boxes are beyond me. But tidying within the house, yes, I will try to be part of that in June.

Well done on your 2 hours yesterday.

I achieved nothing yesterday but I had a lovely day.

I'm sorry I missed page 500 of my thread; I'd been looking forward to that for a while.

Am looking forward to work today.

Hope you feel motivated today...

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It's a pity you didn't see the page number roll over @NatureLover but 500 pages is still a big achievement.

I'm glad you enjoyed your day yesterday. My mood has plateaued at a low level, sleeping long hours and finding things an effort. So working solidly for 2 hours yesterday without a break was an achievement for me. That and my 2km walk occupy most of my afternoon. I still need to transcribe my therapist's notes into a daily schedule. I'm aiming to rethink my afternoons and evenings so I can reclaim the lost mornings. At present my days seem dull and dark.

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