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Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

Any diagnosed germophobes or hoarders on this forum?

Hi, I have just joined. I have a few mental illnesses, but am especially interested in hearing if there are any diagnosed germophobes or people with hoarding disorder on these forums?

I don't know any germophobes in real life, and would be interested to know how any of you pre-Corona germophobes are doing. Can you find enough sanitiser? If not, what are you using instead? Has your germophobia gone sky-high in this pandemic? Do you find it less or more lonely now that nearly everyone is a self-confessed germophobe?

My germophobia is quite bad - I can't have anyone in my house, and need lots of sanitiser when I go out. E.g. I use it after leaving my house and before I get in the car; again before I touch the steering wheel, again after touching my purse, again before putting my seat belt on, etc. I am struggling to find enough sanitiser. If I run out, I was thinking about diluting some disinfectant and putting it into an old water bottle to take out with me. I had one really bad panic lasting 3 days that was debilitating, due to COVID-19, but after that thankfully my germophobia came back down to normal levels. I guess normal levels are not that great but at least I am used to them!

I am strangely finding it more lonely as a diagnosed germophobe now, and would really like to meet some other germophobes online and hear how you're going. At least I had a friend tell me that I was in a stronger position than him, during this health crisis, as he had trouble remembering to wash his hands, whereas I wash them a hundred times a day already!

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Hello, dear friend! Thank you for popping in 🙂 @Anastasia

I am doing well thanks - thankfully. Much better than at any point since last July at least. Up early and with some energy, it's amazing. My hands aren't too bad but my arms and legs are still bad. Legs don't matter so much, but the arms do, as too many band-aids at work stands out! The CEO's wife noticed last week 😞

I'm having lunch with friends today, still outside as I'm uncomfortable with inside. They are so lovely that they will be sure to hug and kiss me at meeting and leaving, and I haven't the heart to say I'm uncomfortable with that during Covid. I feel like an utter miser, so try to just welcome it even though it's uncomfortable. The germophobia makes me 'ungenerous', which I don't like, but it's a strong part of my illness. Maybe, on the flip side, it also helps to stop me offering too many things to to many people and getting overwhelmed and resentful?

Thank you for leaving me gifts when you feel so depleted, that's your beautiful nature showing through ❤️

Hoping that today goes well for you and that you're enjoying your one hour shift per day helping out, to learn for your business 🙂 💚☕

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Hello dear friends,

I've been absent for a couple of days as we've had a death in the family, my uncle. It was sudden and unexpected, and there's a lot to do supporting my family. I can't catch up with you all yet, but I hope you are coping OK.

@Anastasia @Emelia8 @Eve7 @outlander @Snowie @BlueBay @Bow @HenryX

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  • I am sorry for the loss of your uncle @NatureLover

Sending lots of love

💙💛💙💛💙

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I'm so sorry to learn this @NatureLover, sending you love and thinking of you and your family. 💔

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sending lots of love @NatureLover

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I'm thinking of you dear @NatureLover 💛

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Thank you, dear friend, how lovely to get your message just then in my email notifications. I did sign in to the forums this morning, but then my brother rang to talk about my Mum and how she's coping, and then the rest of the day was lost in busy-ness. I hadn't fully appreciated how much there is to do when a death in the family happens, so my heart goes out to you @Anastasia , somewhat belatedly.

My uncle is with the coroner as we don't know the cause of death. So the funeral will be delayed.

Please tell me if this is triggering for you 💔 and I won't mention it again.

I would like to hear your news @Anastasia 💚

I have missed you all. I am still sending wishes haphazardly. Especially for your sleep and grief @Anastasia and @Emelia8 .

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Thank you dear @Eve7 for your ❤ and kind message 💛

How are you doing? Especially with the floods? And your MH?

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Thank you, I really appreciate ❤ @outlander 💙

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Not triggering dear @NatureLover, I'm here for you.

I agree so much to do, all of which you don't realise until you're thrown into having to do it. I feel for you. I'm sorry you're having to learn first hand what's involved.

It's like a club that you enter into, one that you don't want to be a part of, that's how I feel about it. We put some of Dad's ashes into little earns today, it's knocked me around. Just in bed, in the dark want to sleep but brain won't stop.

My business plans are moving along slowly due to lack of time whilst still employed but it will happen. Waiting on hearing back from business I approached to see if we could work together, really need them to come to the party 🙏

Will let you know when I hear.

Tired precious, signing off now. Love and hugs to you and your family ❣️

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