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While I am still very new here, I have been chatting with a couple of members very regularly. My question, is there anyway that someone can check on a member that hasn't replied? I have seen a few threads where I felt they where feeling down on themselves for posting it in the first place and I have sent them a message just checking in and they haven't replied. Not sure if I am overacting (am told I do that a lot).
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Unknown userMember
Hi @Former-Member , I think you can just try to tag them asking how they are or email the mods to check in on someone, or click their username to see when the last time they posted was. Hope that helps, I'm not too sure.
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Unknown userMember
@Former-Member
Thank you for your reply. So you know it was you I was very worried about.
PLEASE TAKE CARE 💖
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Unknown userMember
Really? How come you were worried? But thank you. @Former-Member
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Unknown userMember
@Former-Member
Well as I said I had sent you a good morning and you didn't reply. At first I wasn't worried as I myself don't always check in here in the mornings. But then I saw a response from you on one of your threads that worried me. I waited and nothing so I tried to check in with you last night. When I woke this morning and still nothing, I knew I had to ask how if possible could someone find out if you where ok. 💖
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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@outlander
Thank you very much outlander.
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@Former-Member
Hey @Former-Member @outlander
Just wondering if anyone has heard from @Former-Member lately. @Former-Member
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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Unknown userMember
Thanks @outlander , I haven't heard from her in a couple of days and was worried 💖
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outlanderSenior Contributor
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