Hi @Former-Member ... I am sorry you dont feel you can find any support in any of the Forums or Helplines you've tried so far.
I completely disagree with you that no one wants to talk to you here. Everywhere you've been you have received responses, you have been tagged into other threads of interest, you have been included. @Faith-and-Hope @outlander @Eden1919 @Bunniekins @Zoe7 @BlueBay , to name a few, and numerous others have been very kind and responsive to your many posts.
I can see that you have now opened 5 new threads in quick succession since you joined up a mere 4 days ago. I can also see that you have been getting around to other existing threads and offering and receiving support there too. Thats great, and exactly what online forums are all about ... peer support.
On all threads that you have opened you have received replies and support. But you then seem to do an about turn and open another thread and abandon the thread you already had supporters on. Can I make a (hopefully) constructive suggestion? Can you try to stick to one thread for a little while? This would gather a few rusted-on supporters who relate to you, and whom you can relate to. It would allow you to build a rapport with others here. This may help you to develop better connections, made easier by not flitting from one of your threads to another. Try utilising the more general or relevant thread that is closest to your heart. And tag in other members who have supported you on the other threads you've opened. And build your story, discuss your concerns, ask your questions, etc.
And another question I will put to you ... what exactly are you looking for, and what are your expectations of an online peer support forum? Forums are only as good as the effort we ourselves put in. It could be that Forums are just not a good medium for you, especially since you have already tried (unsuccessfully) so many.
I hope I have not offended you, it is not intended and I apologise wholeheartedly if I have. I would welcome you tagging me to your threads if you'd like to talk. And I see a number of other members have made the exact same offer. Its up to you to accept or decline those offers. But please do not blame members for 'not wanting to talk to you'. Please take care.
Sherry
