Thank you @Former-Member
Maybe. Finally. Is the answer to your question about current support. I have 12 extra allied health service sessions this year in my plan, but the damage can never be repaired and the reality of my son being raised by a mother in agony, transmitted more trauma.
I think it is the transmission of trauma that is more often an issue. I have had vague uneducated comments about which mental illnesses are genetic etc ... all my life ... by people who dont have a clue about genetics.
I rode a bicycle and swam when I met my husband. I was very fit and healthy and had a good education and work history. I ate whole foods and did not drink alcohol. Within 5 years my physical health was destroyed (musculoskeletal system). It happened gradually but within the observation of doctors, due to the baby I took on having 2 Schizophrenic parents. The doctors were varyingly supportive. The Family Therapist was better than the private psychiatrist dude who got defensive about his career and being sued .. hmmmm. The reality was it was an uphill learning curve for them as well. In the close parenting realm the borders between and physical, emotional and social are not very clear. I had a baby within 16 months, so 2 littlies close together. I did not expect the level of betrayal of my needs to the degree that occurred.
After I left husband first thing I did was join a gym and do rehab work for 10 years. It definitely helps, but it is important not to assume that good food and exercise are all that is needed. Sorry about rant.