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Workplace sexual harassment

Workplace sexual harassment

Hi everyone

I work in a Small shop.
I found out tiday thst the locum pharmacist we have had made physical contact with my friend.
he is older than us prob in his 60's. He loves to make sexual comments and jokes.
I don't like him. I just have this horrible feeling.
I'm working with him alone Monday from 4pm to close 5.30om. And alone in the morning for 1/2 hour.
I was shocked when my friend told me.
if he does something to me I will freak. I'm already anxious. My friend was too scared to come to wirk tiday. But she did and tried very hard to keep away frim him.
he's too much in your face. When he speaks to me he's very close.
Im very anxious. Feel sick just thinking of this creep. We're having him fir 3 more weeks.
what should we do?

@Former-Member @Owlunar @Maggie @eth @Shaz51 @Gazza75 @MDT

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Hi @Owlunar @Molliex @opinions2019dec @Gazza75 @candycane @Maggie @MDT @Shaz51

well the day was ok. He talked non stop and followed me to talk. But he didn't touch me so thst was good. We still have him fir another 2 weeks.

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What makes you think he's intentionally following you for a convo?

If you don't like him just tell him

Thanks

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I can't tell him I don't like him @opinions2019dec that would be difficult

he starts talking to me snd follows me around yo continue the conversation

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@BlueBay

Who said it's difficult. Well if you dont like him following you and talking to you, you have to say something or indicate to him you no-longer want to continue like this. i dunno i've never really worked in my life and I dunno know how it goes down but if i didnt want someone talking to me or following me i'd drop hints and say something like sorry ive got to continue on working. i feel you want him talking and following u tho. what world do we live in ai.

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Whst the hell @opinions2019dec

I can't be rude to him. I am working while he's talking. I don't think you brlueve me. That's the vibe I'm getting.
If there's only 3 people of course he's going to talk to me. And he talks to the other lady too.

just forget. I feel you don't brlueve me anyway. So what's the point.
di you think I would like to be harassed physically if he did do that to me.
I had to be on the safe side in case he did do something.
I'm sorry if you're angry but I don't lime you thinking it's nothing.
right now I'm angry. So best I get off

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And I was been careful because I know what he did last week to my friend.

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Hi @BlueBay , @opinions2019dec and others
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@BlueBay

i dunno I couldnt get you, or where you doing that on perpose.

anyway, you dont like him talking to you, is there others you dont as well?

is becuase other are ladies he talks to that make you upset, what if a male walks in and he starst chattting them?

Im not angry.

do you keep quiet when hes talking? he'll tommorrow figure it out why your quiet and will leave yo alone.

all the best.

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Hi @Former-Member

the poster seem to be attacking men.

thanks

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Re: Workplace sexual harassment

yeah but hes stlill there. whats what u know.

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