Son2

Hope you are doing okay @Bunniekins. Thinking of you ♥️♥️♥️🌼🌼🌼

@Bunniekins well if he is old enough...... of course i understand he may not be able to be a functioning adult in the same sense that we usually use the term but I guess i was wondering if he himself has any desire to be an independant adult? because if he does and if he is against the idea of being in care I wonder if you could frame it in a way to him that it was less like being put in an old peoples home and more like a step to being independant if that makes sense? it was more an idea of a way to soften him into the idea of going as you said he didnt want to..... it is complicated of course but I guess if you and your other child/children are not able to control/defend yourselves if the worst case was to happen then it is probably best to consider these things while you do still have control as these things often take such a long time to organise. I do feel for you in having to make these decisions though it is not easy and as someone with a close family member who is not able to fucntion but is unaware of their own limitations who may have to be put into care at some stage i can imagine some of the feelings but of course i imagine it to be different as the parent.

I hope you are taking care of yourself and still managing to do life stuff but do remember to ask for help from those around you if you do need it.

@Molliex @Eden1919 @Gazza75 @Shaz51 @Meowmy @outlander and those passing by. I just wanted to say a big thank you for the support you have all shown me. I am doing okay today just very, very sad. I have son2 walking around the house atm and it is 1.13am. About to contact the suicide prevention online service again, thanks Molliex. Have a busy day today appointments and one with son2 pdoc.

Wishing you all a calm and peaceful day today. Hopefully will catch up with you all in real time. Love peaxxx

I hope you got some sleep @Bunniekins and that you were able to get some support from the online chat. Good luck for your day🍀

@Bunniekins hey little pea, good luck today with doctor. Hope we all keep on being positive. Love you.

Good morning @Bunniekins

Really glad to hear that you are doing okay this morning, despite the very understandable sadness involved in all this. Such a tough decision, but one made with the best interests in mind for both your son and yourself. I'm also glad that you have found the suicide prevention online service helpful. There are certainly times we need all the help we can get. The Sane community is also definitely here to support you, in whatever way we can. Hardly surprising that ... as you have supported so many of us over a long period of time. I hope today goes well for you all, and that you too are able to find some moments of calm and peace. Our dear Pea needs a bit of peace. Love to you. And hi also to @Meowmy @Molliex @Eden1919 @outlander

Sherry 💕

@Former-Member @Bunniekins hey, we just keep on being positive, take care.

Hi @Former-Member , hope you're doing ok today x