Sleeping too much

Gosh, the radio just said we had the coldest night in 6months and it got to 3° Thought it was cold 🙂

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My brain. Grr

OMG @Former-Member - you have me soooo confused!!! You are here, there and everywhere - you are different people - I can't keep up - please tell me you aren't going to change again - my brain won't cope lol

I understand that feeling when a profile pic pops up and you are adversely affected (even momentarily) by it. I am starting to feel a little less anxious with one of those myself now - but still very wary! I think that you do have to respect someone's wishes in the example you gave but also don't take it personally - giving a like is showing that you have 'heard' someone and what they choose to do with that sentiment is theirs to deal with - not yours. So don't be so hard on yourself and don't change - keep listening and keep caring, and keep being you - that is all anyone can ask for my friend

Zoe

Oh @Former-Member

Sorry you took it that way. Not glad at all. I had a little strain as I wrote that, but was also deeply exhausted talking with dying brother on the phone every day and having my own crisis and emergency dept night.

For me, I had regressed to a state where all I could say was "where are all the grown ups, where are all the grown ups?" I get into a state where all I know is to let go. I also get dropsies with handling stuff, because I am not used to it, I wasnt being glib. Far from it.

I have lower expectations of life in some ways. My expextations are on me and my rising to the task and often I fall down.

So very very weary of dealing endlessly with grief. I thought maybe you were feeling good about your volunteer role and saw a life opening up for you.

I think the zoo is very good for me, but it also means less time online.

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