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Sleeping too much
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Just down about everything, especially my son defending my sis not finding time for me. Thinks I didn't give her enough notice or something. He doesn't get it but what hurts is how people that matter to me would rather support the other side = misunderstood, alone. And today I can't carry myself (fainting spells since Sat ?heat), and nobody notices. I think my son & sis just wanr me hurry up and die. Even at the end of our talk last night, he asked if I could keep the next call shorter plz. Interesting as I thought he might be lonely and was taking his lead, plus - he rang me back so was paying for the call. Can't win. Or is it really me? What does anything matter anymore. Here I go again, just wanna go to sleep...
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TABSenior Contributor
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Well it doesn't hurt to put bar higher in a positive way @Appleblossom whether it's through survival or looking for meaning which tends to get forgotten when trying to survive.. so even if miss the bar still better off, well if only through trying or perhaps end up better off than otherwise would have been
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TABSenior Contributor
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..Janet ..re dammit 😀 @Former-Member hope all okay and you are a bit cooler today😸
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TABSenior Contributor
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Reaching out has its risks @Former-Member. Never come across the 'shorter call' request .. have had the gotta go nows tho and the people who never answer ie so why bother.. at least he rang you .. small mercies maybe
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Hugs to you @Former-Member 😙💜👋
I've had a huge day, just saying "hi".
I've had a huge day, just saying "hi".
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Faith-and-HopeSenior Contributor
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Cage the blackdog @Former-Member .... you are so worth it ❣
Its his age and lack of life experience, lack of compassion ... need to justify and defend, sparked by perceived criticism. If she were criticising you, he would likely defend you to her, but you wouldn't be aware that the convo had taken place, that's the difference.
And you know your sister's nature. She looked after him for a bit and he will feel obliged to defend her. Try not to take it to heart.
You matter @Former-Member.
You are enough.
❤️💕
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Unknown userMember
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Thanks Tab, Bella, F&H
My sis never cared for my son, in fact both my kids thought she was 'mean' Both hospital admission years were before & after my children (25yrs apart), they were my reason to live, to fight. Anyhow, just got two strange messages fromum 3.30 ring me asap, 3.31 never mind don't worry. And I'm too tired to, what use am I, she knows what to do.
They said a cold change was coming - still 39° still having presyncope / faints & cramps, got Dr apt Wed.
Are you guys ok? Liked the rain mud story F&H, TAB you sound busy today - well done. You too Bella, is it going ok?
Just did an online req to have that transit lane traffic fine / penalty reviewed - apply for leniency. There was an option for Mental Health claim so i went down that road re history, stress & circumstances, let u know how it goes.
My sis never cared for my son, in fact both my kids thought she was 'mean' Both hospital admission years were before & after my children (25yrs apart), they were my reason to live, to fight. Anyhow, just got two strange messages fromum 3.30 ring me asap, 3.31 never mind don't worry. And I'm too tired to, what use am I, she knows what to do.
They said a cold change was coming - still 39° still having presyncope / faints & cramps, got Dr apt Wed.
Are you guys ok? Liked the rain mud story F&H, TAB you sound busy today - well done. You too Bella, is it going ok?
Just did an online req to have that transit lane traffic fine / penalty reviewed - apply for leniency. There was an option for Mental Health claim so i went down that road re history, stress & circumstances, let u know how it goes.
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TABSenior Contributor
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Not easy worrying about other peoples pshite @Former-Member ..sounds like time for some Tawney Time 😀.. What do YOU want/need ..
..and well done re 5kg. Perfect time to build on it .. you won't know yourself.. thinking clothesline woman re weightloss book .. she just started walking around clothesline yeah sounds nuts ok a variation maybe
..and well done re 5kg. Perfect time to build on it .. you won't know yourself.. thinking clothesline woman re weightloss book .. she just started walking around clothesline yeah sounds nuts ok a variation maybe
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Unknown userMember
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What I want / need, hmm, good question TAB, do we ever really know whats best? Feels like I need 'rest' but not sure if that's doing me any good. Worried the 5kg might just be muscle mass (being lazy), or fluid (re heat) and not fat - but hey, the scales don't know. I reckon we should have scales that sing a little song when we lose wt, haha.
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@Faith-and-Hope, I have a 'religious' question. Why do so many Christian Churches shun cremation?
