Sleeping too much

Will do @Former-Member .... please bail and go stay with your aunt if they get to be too much for you ....

Hugs ..... ❣

You are @Former-Member going well, like all write....

I was thinking about you today when I was at church.falling asleep ......a little...getting through without the husband who has been anxious latey .....

I imagned you as a 45 year old lady, slim and dark shoulder length hair. I called you to ask if you wanted to go book shopping a a few second hand book stores. I always look for Anne Tyler books...what about you?

Hi @Former-Member

I am concerned for you - when are you making this trip to Sydney? I am glad you didn't charge off immediately but rather you are taking your time to get everything prepared

When it comes to checking on the oil in the car - I remember doing it - checking the dip-stick etc - and before and after running the engine and I forget whatever it was that I did about getting more oil and when - I think I got my local mechanics to deal with that - such a long time ago - but checking oil, water, tyre pressure etc was a regular habit instilled by my father - but what did I do about the oil? Totally forgotten

I will be thinking of you as you make this trip which I think is going to be pretty hard on you - not just financially - but physically, mentally and emotionally - spirirually as well -

But I sense this really is a trip you have to make and sort things out - the times comes when there are things we must do if we possibly can and you will be in my thoughts and prayers

Hints - yes - get out of your car and take a walk around the shops and get a caffeine top-top etc now and again - this will be good for your back - a long drive feeling tense is hard on your body as well as everything else

And if things get too hard - bail for a while - I know if I had to see some members of my family I would be finding it really hard - I understand

Lots of hugs

Dec

Hi @Former-Member,

im not sure when you'll check in to the forum but I'm really hoping all has gone well. Good for you taking this trip. I'm in awe that you've taken up this challenge. I don't think I could have done it now. Hoping that you'll know when to get some space if things become to overwhelming for you and to find time and space to regroup and practice self compassion and self care. Thinking of you and sending best wishes 💜🤗💐

Hellooo @Former-Member, @Former-Member, @Decadian, @Starshine, @Former-Member

how are you tonight @Former-Member

Hi @Shaz51,

im ok, tired and confused but ok. How are you going?

also sending love and best wishes to @Decadian. I hope you have been in less pain today. Thinking of you.

Sorry to you both that I don't respond as quickly as I used to. I'm finding I'm very self absorbed at the moment and often get overwhelmed on the forum these days. You are in my thoughts though

💜🤗

Very busy day @Former-Member

we cleaned 4 hours at the first house and then 2 hours at the second house

then we went shopping -- did ours and my mums , was home at 6 pm '

very tired