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Sleeping too much
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All round trip 2 hours all up @TAB. The kids have another hour after I drop them off. Pretty tiring all round.
Ha ha gentle shuv!! With kind intentions! 😜
Ah yes love/hate do go hand in hand, hard when caught up in the intensity @Former-Member, but with time it will not bother you like it does now.
Hmm maybe its got something to do with cutting emotional ties, within yourself. Oh boy im the queen of having mucked up, and those that do care wondering why I put myself through it. It's a very personal journey. Tab is definitely on the money with that one.❤
Ha ha gentle shuv!! With kind intentions! 😜
Ah yes love/hate do go hand in hand, hard when caught up in the intensity @Former-Member, but with time it will not bother you like it does now.
Hmm maybe its got something to do with cutting emotional ties, within yourself. Oh boy im the queen of having mucked up, and those that do care wondering why I put myself through it. It's a very personal journey. Tab is definitely on the money with that one.❤
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TABSenior Contributor
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..I really pictured myself going to my friends funeral, then thought and thought.. and didn't go .. Her sister sent my card thingo from funeral, I kept it for ages, had to throw it in the end..
Yeah, a 'lapsed' reader .. schoolbooks in primary school used to be called readers .. got a couple here untouched re books, read an Australian Short Stories thingo years ago, I could actually see what was written.. well that was Ghost on the Rail, re short story.. also absolutey love Robbery Under Arms .. read of Mice and Men first time this year, inbetween wondering what all the fuss was about it was really deep and powerful, well, the subtext was.. @Former-Member
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Oh sorry to hear that @Former-Member.
We don't always need to attend to send our thoughts. Spirit knows. Strong believer in that.
Funerals are so sad. ❤
We don't always need to attend to send our thoughts. Spirit knows. Strong believer in that.
Funerals are so sad. ❤
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TABSenior Contributor
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poor buggers re extra hour. Oh well. Yes, was never too good with cutting ties, I do believe it would be way easier to do 'clean break' instead of trying to redefine things and yeah well .. silly .. 
been there. makes you feel good at time, but peace offerings don't change basic problems, they never seemed to change, sorta left me wondering who I was with sometimes. Well, they had a plan. Harder, wiser.. @Former-Member
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Thanks @Former-Member, always thought hate was the opposite to love, but I discovered its fear, apathy, indifference... Any wonder he confuses me to be around. Actually still feel sorry for him, even after all he did, weird
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TABSenior Contributor
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she was well remembering re my friend. And still is. I just didn't need to be there re funeral @Former-Member @Former-Member @Former-Member
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TABSenior Contributor
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love and hate are next door neighbours. well, can be. Just try to think of yourself, maybe. @Former-Member
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Hmm yes interesting @Former-Member.
I think ones true nature never leaves.
I once recall reading or hearing our first impressions, or gut feelings lead us to our answers.
Pretty powerful really.
I chose danger, and walked right into it.
I think ones true nature never leaves.
I once recall reading or hearing our first impressions, or gut feelings lead us to our answers.
Pretty powerful really.
I chose danger, and walked right into it.
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I think we cope in the best way we know how at given times @TAB.
I'm sure your friend sees this from whatever place you believe her to know be.❤
We may not be perfect, but I think for myself if I act in accordance with my heart, my answers are to be the best I can possibly arrive at.
I think maybe that's why I forget things so much now. Too much to hold, a heavy heart is not something to walk with.
A free giving heart is better.😊
I'm sure your friend sees this from whatever place you believe her to know be.❤
We may not be perfect, but I think for myself if I act in accordance with my heart, my answers are to be the best I can possibly arrive at.
I think maybe that's why I forget things so much now. Too much to hold, a heavy heart is not something to walk with.
A free giving heart is better.😊
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AppleblossomSenior Contributor
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There many ways to deal with somebody's death.
I did not cry at my father's funeral but asked to stay home by myself. I dont regret that. I did go to the viewing before the church thing and went to visit his grave later.
I used to wonder about the love/hate thing too ... and wise stories talking about one be the other side of the coin .. or some such. Now I guess I see it through the lens of attachment and the concept of mixed messages and ambivalence.
It also seems related to level of closeness.
