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RazzleSenior Contributor
I’d be the first person to stick my hand up and admit that I don’t understand how the male brain works, the more I try the less I understand.
So maybe a few male forumites might be able to answer me this? How important is sex in a relationship? From holding hands, to kissing, to full on intimacy? Is sex a deal breaker for a man in a relationship?
And more importantly, does sex mean LOVE ????
In response to: Question for the Guys
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