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Hot Chocolate Anyone ?

Hot Chocolate Anyone ?

Hi All

There is a thread operating on the Lived Experience Forum under Night Shift where members who are having trouble sleeping for any reason give a bit of a shout-out, to see if there is anyone else sleepless and looking for company. It's been such a great thing, I thought I would start one over here too.

I have had the odd few nights where I have woken up on and off, and my kids have been having a bit of trouble some nights too, depending on what has happened during the day.

Being a carer can be lonely too, so if you are making an after-midnight cup of something hot, and wonder who else might be doing that too, maybe have a look-in here and see if anyone else is about.

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Oh yes please @Faith-and-Hope

hello @Anony18 xx'

how has your day been @Faith-and-Hope, @Anony18, @Former-Member, @Lost1 xx

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Yes .... Connoisseur .... 😋

That's good of you to be supporting your work colleague @Anony18. It sounds like he's going through a hard time and can use a hand on his shoulder ....

I responded to your earlier text today, but can't see my response ... so I'm not sure what I have done with it ... goes with my state of brain function today, prob'ly .... 😜

I had my youngest daughter (D3) running late for school this morning, nothing new ... grrr ..... struggling through her last few weeks of High School ... but she derailed an appointment for a wedding dress fitting for her sister (D1) .... grrr some more .... I was so mad ! Sigh .... there are some days that just have to happen, whichever way they turn out .... and we survive them, don't we ?

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@Shaz51 - Day been really busy. Going to catch up with a few workmates for dinner just to chill out a bit i think. Been a struggle to get out of bed these days. Worried about the partner cause he been having difficulties as home which means he isn't responsive to my texts.

@Faith-and-Hope - they are the best brand! Yes my staff is going through a tough time. I know he use to suffer anxiety and prob still does. Everyone is unsure how to handle him and seems to say am the only one. he is struggling to discover what to do with his career as he is unhappy. He has exams soon so I said next couple weeks study, do his exam and when he returns we can take a time out during work hours and chat about his options which he appreciates.

Oh what a frustrating day! We all have those days but the most important bit is that end of day we return home and are able to sit down and have a cuppa to relax.

Have to tell you all - the past month you all have been a real comfort knowing there are people going through similar situation to me and are so encouraging. It has been such a joy coming to this forums to chill out

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Hi @Anony18, sending you hugs

Hello @Anony18, @Faith-and-Hope', @Former-Member, @Former-Member, @Lost1, , @Former-Member, @Appleblossom, @PeppiPatty xx

will find out more next week

have to do some more blood tests

at the moment -- have to cut down on salt, and certain foods, fruit and veges

Yes , the kidney is mostly to blame xx

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You are being so patient through all this @Shaz51 .... good on you ... it must be frustrating and uncomfortable but you just keep soldiering on ....

I hope the test results give you some workable answers 💐

It was actually a beautiful day here weather wise ..... ☀️

So far the coffee ice cream was a fail in terms of re-booting my energy .... I still wish someone else would cook dinner tonight .... would rather stay curled up here in bed ....

My WH is back off interstate on Monday ... think I'm overdue a pyjama day .... things have been a bit too full-on lately ....

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Being curled up in bed is always such a good thing! I can't complain about dinner as my brothers or mum cooks. Bit spoilt really. If I could @Faith-and-Hope I would send some dinner your way now.

Pyjama day! I love being in my PJs and under my sheets especially on a cold day. Saying that - can't stay home too much cause I can't seem to sit still. Probably reason why I commit to 3 hours of dance inspite of the busy work life I have at times!

@Shaz51 - hope the blood test goes well and you know what's up.

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This is a great forum. It captures the small moments and yhe healing moments. It is full of cups of coffee and Billy teas of sorts..Have a great day folks. I am looking forward to catching up.with old friends today and taking a 98 year old for a walk in the sun.along the beach front. The birds are now awake and singing outside my window?

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Hi @JennyK

Up for a tea or coffee ?

This thread operates like a bit of a drop-in cafe .... there will usually be someone around for a hi and a chat ....

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Thanks hot chocolate sounds great, yes it can be such a worry, although since researching & learning more about the illness & pain it has helped. I've had depression myself but have responded quickley to the medication. My daughter has been so resitant, although we had a great beach walk today & lunch. Very grateful

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Hi @JennyK 😊

The beach walk sounds great ..... ❣

I am in a family situation where circumstantial depression threatens us all .... exercise is one of the best coping mechanisms there is, I think ..... unfortunately for us my husband has taken exercise to an extreme, likely in an effort to control something that has gone awry with his inner world, cos that's not the only issue ..... but I walk as much as I reaonably can.

Most mornings I go looking for the local dolphin pods in the river just down from our house, and the trek between two bridges is about 10km .... very nice on the days I feel up to it, or find the time free.

Don't know whether your daughter would find this appealing, but I posted a recipe for "Adult Play Dough" on another thread yesterday ..... I think of it as aromatherapy in a tactile form .... it might be something you could make together as an alternative to a stress ball ....

Calming Lavender Play Dough

I like to add in rose oil and rose petals .... I am sure it would work just as well with peppermint oil and dried oeppermint leaves ....

Ingredients:
* 2 cups of flour
* 4 tablespoons of cream of tartar
* 2 tablespoons of vegetable oil
* 1 cup of salt
* 2 cups of boiling water
* few drops of lavender oil
* few drops of rose oil
* dried lavender petals
* dried rose petals

Method:
* Mix together the flour, cream of tartar and salt in a bowl.
* Add the oil and water and keep stirring until it all comes together.
* Leave it in the bowl to cool and don’t worry if it looks a little gooey at this stage.
* Once cool enough add to a dry surface and knead knead knead! This is the most important part and helps to get rid of all the stickiness.
* Store in a airtight container or ziplock bag and it lasts for months. Keep somewhere cool, ours is usually in the fridge

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