Hot Chocolate Anyone ?

@Ceebubbles

Some people really just don't niknik how to "do" relationships .... some of those will learn how if they are guided or taught .... others will only ever be able to manage the mere basics and come across as a bit heartless, or stilted, or plastic ....

You sort of have to work out what the base material is that you have to work with, so you don't spend your life expecting something from them that they are either not capable of, or not willing to give.

I would suggest that your in-laws are like that, and the best you can do is just be polite when you have to interact with them, but otherwise look at who you can replace them with in your children's lives .... because your children deserve better.

My kids have grown up with a respect for my in-laws' life view, and their emotional limitations, and work with that model when they socialise with them, which is quite a lot .... but they reserve their "real" relationships for people who are in it for better or worse, good or bad, heart and soul, humour tears and the rest ....

I hope that helps you with the decision-making.

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Good morning everyone

a big cup of coffee please xx

Hi @Faith-and-Hope

here you go a nice big cup of coffee'

How is D3 now xx

finished work for the day -- 2 hour job

it is raining

hubby cant do anything

sore today , have not got a appoinment yet to start the treatment @Faith-and-Hope

Is there anything to help with D3 cramps xx

I get cramps in the legs esp at night because of the kidney as i have to cut down on salt

it is good for D3 to look forward to the end of the year , something that will help her through

I wish D3 all the best and encouragement for the days ahead

curcumstantial depression -- this has me interested

if you don`t mind me asking what is it

Oh @Faith-and-Hope

My hubby said he was told he had curcumstantial depression through his life , i am reading about it

Hi @Faith-and-Hope xx

You are sooo awesome my friend

yes , it makes a lot of sense

I remember telling the specialist that my hubby is affected by curxumstances in his life

I can see why it is hard to diagnose Circumstantial depression or BiPlolar

I am understanding why all the specialist are saying they don`t know what my hubby has