Angels333Senior Contributor
Self Harm
It's ruining my life
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Angels333Senior Contributor
It's ruining my life
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
can you try other things in your coping box my awesome @Angels333 ![]()
hvae a cuppa xx
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I am so sorry you are struggling today, I wish I had some words of wisdom, some fancy trick up my sleeve that could actually help you my friend. I am sending you lots of love and light. Hope your prn works well for you. By the way you have nothing to feel ashamed about beautiful. 💜Nikki
@Angels333
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Angels333Senior Contributor
Yes I did just have a cup of tea, I will have another in a minute. Dinner is easy tonight homemade pasties that I made yesterday
Thanks @Shaz51 I just feel so miserable...
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Shaz51Senior Contributor
I know you are feeling so miserable...my @Angels333
soo glad you are having a easy dinner tonight
sending you understanding hugs xx
we are have leftover homemade pizza tonight
sitting with you with a cuppa in my hand
I have lots of aches and pains right now xx
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
Hey @Angels333 There is no shame in not coping Hon - we have all had those days and it is both demoralising and terrifying. You are doing the best you can and today you just have to get through the day. Work tomorrow will come and go and before you know it you will have done yet another day. Keep putting one foot in front of the other, acknowledge that today is one of those sucky days, lean on us here if you need and know you are cared for, loved and heard by us all. Sending you a little extra strength and love tonight Hon ![]()
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Angels333Senior Contributor
Oh @Shaz51 I'm so sorry for your aches and pains, I know your leg is sore because of your kidney disease, it's so tough for you.
Thanks Nikki, I know I'll feel better tomorrow after work has finished. @Former-Member
XOXO ANGELS333
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MolliexSenior Contributor
@Angels333 please ask Mr Angels. There is no shame and nothing weak about having a bad day. You've had so much going on, and you've been managing admirably.
Is there anything else that helps? A nice bath, a cheesy movie, or a chocolate treat?
I'm around if you need a friend x
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Angels333Senior Contributor
Thanks @Zoe7 I am taking it easy today, yes, it's one of those sucky days. Thanks so much for your support. I do think I need to address the issue of my anxiety as I can't go on like this. It is good that after tomorrow I will get 2 weeks away from the pool as it will be school holidays.
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Zoe7Senior Contributor
It would be good to be able to get over the anxiety you have around work Hon - it really is no way to live. Enjoy the next couple of weeks though knowing you have a break @Angels333 ![]()
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Angels333Senior Contributor
Oh @Molliex my friend
You have so much happening right now and you care about me still ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
I know you are having such a tough time trying to stay calm, neither too hopeful or devastated.
I have my issues but I am here for you too.
I'm going to go to bed early at 8.30 until then I will have a coffee now and then some Chinese tea https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lapsang_souchong at bed time, I just asked Son 1 to light some candles (aromatherapy) to help.
XOXO ANGELS333
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