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Self Harm

Self Harm

It's ruining my life

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It sounds chaotic @Former-Member I can only listen....I hope your okay, if your in danger call 1800 737 732 it's a domestic violence line.... I don't think you partner throwing away your meds is acceptable

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💜🌷 @Angels333 .....

Sounds a lot like my soon2bx @Former-Member ..... has all the hallmarks of npd.

Keep looking after you ❣️ Hearing you here more than you know.

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Huge step @Angels333

Proud of you and all the progress you have made.

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Me too @Angels333 ^^^ ❤️💕

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@Faith-and-Hope @Molliex

Thanks so much you are both such kind friends.❤🧡💛💚💙💜

I still need my meds and one on one psychologist and psychiatrist and I have so much trauma that gets in the way. But I get my Thursday back, maybe I'll look for a new job in the new year....

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3 years is a long time to do DBT @Angels333 so I am not surprised you have finished. The skills you have learnt over that time will carry you forward though Hon - and that is a good thing. I strongly believe your knowledge and experience will be invaluable as a peer support worker so I wish you nothing but goodluck with the course and your future endeavours.

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Evening @Faith-and-Hope @Angels333 @TAB

@Anastasia

@Former-Member

Sorry I've not replied yet.

P says he will get help. Doesn't want to loose me.

My s retaliated by breaking a few small things of his-mug, sunnies, face cream etc.

He said he was lying.

Today as S at his own dads my P found letter he wrote.

Very upsetting. Expressing anger, hate and speaking of suicide.

I don't believe he will do this. But it's not good. My P looks at the names he called him and says he still needs to know it's not ok to break someone's property.

Im confused in one sense.

I know why my son did this. Powerless to act. So broke Ps things.

Im stuck. Made a life with his world. He appologised for throwing out my meds. I purchased his new lenses for sunnies. I know NPD. My ex was this. So yes in many ways I'm wary. I'm trying to work with it all.

Tomorow I collect my kids from their dads.

I will see how it all goes.

I just want it to stop.
Anyway. I didn't really wan to say more. I'm wary of what he watches. It's controlling stuff. I know.

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so many things going on @Former-Member

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How can I change p******n***
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I can't find it. Maybe reply other thread?

Or If anyone knows ?🥴

@Former-Member

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Yeah @Former-Member ..... I am wary the same way ..... controlling, and then some !!! It's the way of them, as you know. Take care dear heart. Allow for yourself. It's necessary. NPD has different guises. Are you seeing a counsellor you can discuss it with ? Hugs ❣️

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