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Topic Tuesday // Self Esteem & Mental Health // Tues 13th Aug, 7pm-9pm AEST

Topic Tuesday // Self Esteem & Mental Health // Tues 13th Aug, 7pm-9pm AEST

Sometimes when we have navigated the reality of complex trauma, mental health diagnosis (or even the challenges of being a mental health carer), it can be extremely easy to forget to direct unconditional compassion towards ourselves.

Many people are familiar with the voice in our heads that can ruminate heavy and unkind words towards oneself, sometimes over the course of so many years that we don't even recognise it. The output of this can be lower self-esteem; most definitely a common symptom during mental health recovery.

Join @Former-Member for this Topic Tuesday as we soundboard ideas around improving our self-esteem whilst living with complex mental health challenges

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Self Esteem & Mental Health // Tues 13th Aug, 7pm-9pm AEST

I find it all really difficult whenever I made to be wrong my mind always goes back to my childhood I try to remeber that some people would rather be right than happy and I am not one of them, but even this simple task of typing makes me feel wrong as I am so slow and as a result my expectaions are I should be better. Acceptance is the key.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Self Esteem & Mental Health // Tues 13th Aug, 7pm-9pm AEST

@Shaz51 Understandably so. It's a hard slog to re-wire emotional abuse, but I can vouch it is achievable and I certainly believe with your strength and resilience a strong sense of self-worth is on the horizon for you too I am sorry to hear of this experience, and hope you know you are very worthy

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Self Esteem & Mental Health // Tues 13th Aug, 7pm-9pm AEST

Sitting with you @BlueBay

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Self Esteem & Mental Health // Tues 13th Aug, 7pm-9pm AEST

Yes dr google has provided so interesting facts. @Former-Member But all intellectual for me, practically not even in the race.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Self Esteem & Mental Health // Tues 13th Aug, 7pm-9pm AEST

Expectations I was automatically thinking what do I need to do to be a Senior Contributor I am only a New Contributor

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Self Esteem & Mental Health // Tues 13th Aug, 7pm-9pm AEST

@Former-MemberI think it is really hard to have that self worth with trauma.

I struggle with affirmations. I don't trust my ability to make right decisions and don't feel in control of my life or actions at all.

Transforming our self concept takes a long time I think and is something that you have to keep working on. It is a slow slow road.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Self Esteem & Mental Health // Tues 13th Aug, 7pm-9pm AEST

@HappySmiley Thanks for contributing - you are right radical acceptance can be super helpful. The ranks change the more you post across the forums 🙂 I can't remember the exact number off the top of my head but will find out for you tomorrow! 😄

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Self Esteem & Mental Health // Tues 13th Aug, 7pm-9pm AEST

Hearing you @cutiepiekitty Thank you heaps for sharing this. And thank you for being here!

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Self Esteem & Mental Health // Tues 13th Aug, 7pm-9pm AEST

Thanks @Former-Member I just think when as a child you have had a trauma whether it’s physical emotional sexual etc it affects your self esteem.

Fir me personally it robbed me of my confidence. I have lost all confidence in myself

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Self Esteem & Mental Health // Tues 13th Aug, 7pm-9pm AEST

Thank you @Former-Member xx

It still catches me from time to time xxxx

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