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Topic Tuesday // Caring about, not caring for // Tues 20 Aug, 7pm AEDT

Topic Tuesday // Caring about, not caring for // Tues 20 Aug, 7pm AEDT

In this Topic Tuesday we will be looking at what it’s like to care about someone in your life, even if you aren’t a carer or do not identify as a carer. Maybe your friend is going through a tough time with their mental health and you want to help them? Maybe a family member is struggling and you want to support them as much as you can. We will cover things like how to have a supportive conversation with someone, what can you do if someone doesn’t want help. For those carers that are a bit more informed on these things – please do join us and share your experiences and insights as we knowledge share throughout the night too!

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I'm new here - what is Topic Tuesday?

Topic Tuesday runs from 7pm - 9pm AEST monthly. Each month we focus on a different topic, with the session facilitated by a Community Manager or Moderator. Sometimes Topic Tuesday will feature a special guest, who is an expert in the topic.

The first post of the thread (this one) will give you an idea of what the topic is and what will be covered.

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Throughout the session, the facilitator will put questions out for you to answer, usually asking for your own experience on the topic. To contribute to the session, just hit the 'reply' button and share your thoughts. No answers are right or wrong and everyone is welcome to get involved.

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In response to: Topic Tuesday // Caring about, not caring for // Tues 20 Aug, 7pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // Caring about, not caring for // Tues 20 Aug, 7pm AEDT

Hello @Kelly69 xx

@Former-Member , @Determined , @Smc , @Bunniekins

In response to: Topic Tuesday // Caring about, not caring for // Tues 20 Aug, 7pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // Caring about, not caring for // Tues 20 Aug, 7pm AEDT

Hey @Former-Member and everyone here 🙂 I'm not sure how much I'll be able to participate tonight but I'm definitely interested in this topic.

I'm here as there are a few people I care about in my life (my kids and my parents mostly).

Looking forward to joining in if I can, or reading through the discussion later 🙂

In response to: Re: Topic Tuesday // Caring about, not caring for // Tues 20 Aug, 7pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // Caring about, not caring for // Tues 20 Aug, 7pm AEDT

hello and welcome @Kelly69
I hope theres some tips here that you find helpful. your welcome to create a thread for yourself as well so we can help and support you through your journey too

In response to: Topic Tuesday // Caring about, not caring for // Tues 20 Aug, 7pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // Caring about, not caring for // Tues 20 Aug, 7pm AEDT

Welcome @Kelly69 ! You are in the right place for our Topic Tuesday discussion and it's great to have you join the forums. Well done on posting for the first time too!

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Caring about, not caring for // Tues 20 Aug, 7pm AEDT

@Georgie_Girl , @Faith-and-Hope

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Caring about, not caring for // Tues 20 Aug, 7pm AEDT

Hi @CheerBear ! Thanks for coming along. No pressure, this thread will be here for anyone that wants to read back through it at any point.

Looks like we have quite a few people coming through which is fabulous. Might give it another minute then we will move on to our first discussion topic. I feel like there will be a lot of great knowledge sharing happening tonight woo!

In response to: Re: Topic Tuesday // Caring about, not caring for // Tues 20 Aug, 7pm AEDT

Re: Topic Tuesday // Caring about, not caring for // Tues 20 Aug, 7pm AEDT

@Sophie1 @JessT maybe you would like to join in

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Caring about, not caring for // Tues 20 Aug, 7pm AEDT

Welcome warmly the the forum @Kelly69 I am Whitehawk the moderator this evening. Feel free to ask me or others if you need help navigating the forum. We have a Tuesday Topic this evening in the carers forum about caring - "caring about, not caring for" Feel free to contribute or to post on any other thread. I am sure the forum members will offer you support, information and connection.

cheers Whitehawk

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Caring about, not caring for // Tues 20 Aug, 7pm AEDT

Lets get started on the first discussion point!

Sometimes, when you are aware of someone struggling or having a hard time it can be tricky to know how to open up conversation with the around it. You might ask them if they are okay and they just let you know they are fine. But you notice more and more that they don’t seem to be. How do you have a supportive conversation? What kind of things can you say to help them feel supported or help them feel like they can open up to you?

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Caring about, not caring for // Tues 20 Aug, 7pm AEDT

Hello @Former-Member (aka Mrs Lauz 😀).

Apart from Mr Darcy who I care for, I care about my sister and her son who both have MI, my sister has anxiety and depression whilst my nephew has PTSD, BPD and more.

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