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Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST

Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST

Identifying as being in a caring role, particularly as a male can be a little challenging at times. As our special guest @Greg_MenCareToo for this event from Men Care too mentions “Caring and nurture are characteristics not often associated with males but every man has a different experience and unique responsibilities in life. The same can be said when it comes to the caring role.”

We are really excited to make the most of the Topic Tuesday event to explore the feelings around identity, challenges and communication when it comes to being a male in a caring role or being a carer who understands the challenges and can offer those insights to others too.

We welcome all of the community, male or not to share their perspectives and insights!

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In response to: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST

Re: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST

@Nino Very true, a big responsibility at any age and for younger people there are are whole range of issues. There are some state and national organisations who offer some good programs and support.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST

@Nino great tips, it isn't selfish at all. I have been making sure I take time out for quiet a while now and whilst I still have feelings of guilt I know that the break is good for me and the person I care for.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST

1. Get supported and feel supported. Caring for someone is like long haul work, not a DIY project.

2. The person we care for can also care for us. It feels good to help someone. Give them that opportunity.

3. Have fun - like @eth

In response to: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST

Re: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST

Awesome tips @Greg_MenCareToo and @Nino

Love the focus on trying to speak up as much as you can - not easy but good to keep trying! And the support groups - whether its using a network around you or joining a group like you both said, is so valuable.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST

@Former-Member for me..

Actually acknowledging the carer role

Seeking help for strategies to cope.

Seeking/ accepting help in the support role.

(For me it was being comfortable delegating to willing friends and family so I could do what I needed to do).

In response to: Re: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST

Re: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST

Thanks everyone ofr your input. I have enjoyed tonight even though I found it difficult to use the forum and it appears some of my replies are not there. The value of knowing you are not alone and being able to share cannot be measured.

I hope you all take care of yourself and your loved ones.\

MrDad

In response to: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST

Re: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST

@eth The workplace is a tricky one, even though there are laws and regulations around carer leave and flexibility, approaching your employer can be a bit daunting and that can add to the stress of what is going on.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST

@JMRD great point around caring for someone isn't a DIY project! reach out and get support always as much as we can 💪

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST

@JMRD all good tips, your first one is gold and perfect terminology for men.

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Re: Topic Tuesday // Being a male in a caring role // Tues 25 June, 7pm AEST

Thanks for sharing these tips @Determined - I find that really good insight around getting comfortable with delegating as well

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